Yakezie Carnival: My Momma Told Me Edition

On a sunny morning in middle of May (Steve Zussino @ Grocery Alerts)
A mother goose (Amanda L Grossman @ Frugal Confessions) gathers her gooselings around
“Listen carefully to what I have to say,
Even better, here, write the keywords down” (Jon Rhodes @ Affiliate Tips)

“Education is important, but you can cut college costs (Dr. Dean @ The Millionaire Nurse Blog)
And for a higher income, a college is not a must (Sean @ One Smart Dollar)
The economy is sucky, but you can still find a job (Shilpan @ Street Smart Finance)
Listen to my career advice and trust (Jeremy @ Modest Money)

Every job teaches you something new (MMD @ MyMoneyDesign)
Here are 3 O’s of Success (KrantCents) for you to read
You can reach an income level you consider rich (Eddie @ Finance Fox)
As long as my advice you will heed

When you get a credit card (SB @ Finance Product Reviews) look for something good (Timothy @ Wealth Artisan)
Avoid consumer debt and pay cash instead (KT @ Personal Finance Journey)
You can reward yourself with some luxury (Jen @ Master the Art of Saving)
But don’t let lifestyle inflation go to your head! (Teacher Man @ My University Money)

When it comes to investing (J Wayne @ All Things Finance) you should know
There are risks in every go (SB @ One Cent at a Time)
Learn from the best like Warren Buffett (J.P. @ Novel Investor)
Establish a good allocation of asset (YFS @Your Finances Simplified)

Retiring early is hard to do (Ryan @ Early Retirement Investments)
future inflation rates can go up or down (Luke @ Learn Bonds)
S&P 500 Return Calculator (PK @ Don’t Quit Your Day Job)

Lay many nest eggs, mother goose continued
Have a few rental nest eggs (Lance @ Money Life & More) set as well
Don’t get caught up in investing fads (Teacher Man @ Young And Thrifty)
Dodge investment scams (Tushar @ Start Investing Money) from those with a scheme to sell

When you meet that one very special someone (Michelle @ See Debt Run)
And your heart suddenly go pitter patter
Spend spend some money but don’t let the pursestrings fall too loose (Everything Finance @ Everything Finance Blog)
Don’t serve your finances up on a wedding platter (Daniel @ Sweating the Big Stuff)

How to Get a Bad Credit Loan FAST – Even When Your Credit Is Terrible

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People with terrible credit can still find a loan to cover unexpected expenses. Lenders have become more willing to extend loans to people with bad credit ratings. However, the individual can expect to pay more for the loan. The types of loans may differ for each individual depending on his or her financial situation. An individual who has filed for bankruptcy will not be offered the same type of loan as someone who has not filed bankruptcy. Therefore, the options differ according to the individual’s credit history.

Types of Loans Available for Individuals with Bad Credit

  • Unsecured personal loans are available with higher interest rates since these do not require any collateral to secure the loan.
  • Bad credit personal loans offer access to fast cash when it is needed. An individual can go to www.badcreditloans.com to apply for this type of loan.
  • A personal loan for a limited amount will usually be available to individuals with poor credit. Some institutions will not require a credit check for loans of small amounts, and the money will be available quickly.

Individuals with bad credit should borrow the lowest amount needed and pay back extra each month over the minimum payment to prevent paying more money in fees and interest. It is better for the individual to pay back the loan as quickly as possible.

Tips to Help Individuals with Terrible Credit Obtain Loans

  • Individuals should be aware of their credit scores. A credit report should be obtained and checked for accuracy by the individual before applying for a loan. The report will allow the individual to know if something has been misreported, which can affect their credit rating. Knowing the credit score can also help an individual know which type of loan will be best for him or her.
  • Before applying for a loan at an establishment, consider asking a family member or friend to extend a loan. This could save money on the high interest rates as well as the time it takes to apply and wait for approval from a lending institution. Just be sure to pay back the money to the family member or friend with interest, or the relationship could be damaged.
  • Individuals should check with their personal bank or credit union since these are two of the best places for individuals with bad credit to obtain personal loans. The personal bank is more willing to work with an individual who has money in their establishment since the bank is familiar with the individual’s banking standards. However, the bank does not have to loan the money just because an individual has an account with them, but many times the bank will be more lenient in their lending practices for these individuals. A credit union that is offered through a job will be more agreeable to loaning money to an employed worker since the credit union is guaranteed of having the money repaid. The money will usually be deducted from an employee’s paycheck.
  • Individuals can search online to find companies that offer credit to individuals with terrible credit. Make sure that the company is legitimate by checking them out before applying for the loan. Call the company and discuss the reason for needing the loan.
  • A great way to get a bad credit loan fast is with a payday loan. This type of loan will offer money fast for someone with an emergency, and there is no other option for obtaining the cash. These loans come with extremely high interest rates, and the loan will be due on payday. If an individual is not able to pay it back at that time, more interest will be added. This can become a problem since the debt is increasing. Eventually this could cause someone to be unable to pay back the loan.

Sometimes it becomes necessary to find extra money for an unexpected expense, but it is better to find a loan that is repayable to keep from getting more into debt. Terrible credit ratings mean that an individual will have fewer options of loans to choose from to get money fast, but there are some loans available if an individual is willing to pay the higher interest rates.

Fess Up Friday: Spending Under Kate Middleton’s Influence

There’s a $200 dress that I want, and I blame it all on Kate Middleton!

There are magazines and blogs devoted to Kate Middleton’s outfits, and I count myself among fans of her style. It’s so refreshing to see someone famous wearing stylish, work-appropriate clothes. I admire great evening wear, but I rarely tune into Hollywood stars appearing on the red carpet because my next invitation to a black-tie event is in… well… hasn’t happened yet. On the other hand, many of Kate’s outfits can easily be adapted to a day at the office.

Some people say her clothes are boring, but at the risk of sound boring myself, I like classic pieces. Most avant garde design are best left to the runways. Besides, I’m not one to want a particularly exciting or cutting edge wardrobe. What I want is a closet filled with clothes that fit and flatter and that are always appropriate for the occasion.

While Kate wears plenty of high-end brands that are out of my budget’s league (Alice Temperly, how I love thee), I appreciate the fact that she doesn’t wear only designer. One of her favorite brands is Reiss, a premium high-street fashion house whose items retail for around $200-$500. On sale, Reiss would tip into my “big splurge but doable once in a while” category. The personal finance blogger in me rejoices.

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And speaking of these sale items… I peered at Reiss’ website and saw this beauty, the Andree Lace Dress in Lilac, for a tantalizingly-within-my-reach $190 (plus $15 shipping). Hey, it’s cheaper than the headband I was looking at, and I did just receive a bonus… Given that it is Reiss, it’s conceivable that Kate could wear it and then it would disappear off the shelves. icon wink Fess Up Friday: Spending Under Kate Middletons Influence If I pair this dress with a black blazer, I may be able to wear it to work, and it would work beautifully as an elegant cocktail dress. This is what the website has to say about the dress: In luxurious lace, the Andree three-quarter sleeve pencil dress has a v-front with twist detail to the centre cinching the waist and fastens with a concealed zip to the back. 

Are you a fan of Kate Middleton’s style? More importantly, what do you think of the dress – yay or nay?

Etsy vs. eBay: You May Be Paying More for the Same Thing

I have officially decided to forgo the $260 hair piece that MOST of you advised me against buying. icon wink Etsy vs. eBay: You May Be Paying More for the Same Thing  Instead, I looked for something a little bit more understated, a little bit more budget friendly, but still has that vintage flare I love. Etsy presents a myriad of chioces of headbands, fascinators, combs and brooches, and I fell in love with a hair brooch in the shape of a peacock feather. That is, until I went on to eBay and realized that there are brooches that look almost exactly the same, that I can buy for half the Etsy price. I’ve put up a screenshot below – you can see that the Etsy item costs $33.50, while the identical brooch is sold on eBay for $16.99. But at least that Etsy seller has changed (or “upcycled”) a brooch into a clip.

The proof is in the pudding screenshot

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I believe in supporting artists and paying for quality products that requires real craftsmanship, but this excursion into Etsy has been a little disappointing. To be honest, I feel misled. Putting a clip on the back of a brooch you bought on eBay doesn’t strike me as an “original creation” as that Etsy seller proclaims. And it’s not an isolated case. I found several other examples of people who seemed to have simply purchased items on eBay and then turn around and sell it on Etsy for triple the cost. See this $5.50 brooch? It reappears for $18 here. This Etsy comb is selling for $30, whereas an identical comb on eBay has a starting bid of $9.99 and no bids 2 days before the close of auction. Further googling revealed that there are websites devoted to outing Etsy resellers and calling out Etsy knockoffs. I guess the moral of the story is: do your due diligence!

Have you discovered serious pricing discrepancies between identical products on Etsy vs. eBay?

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5 Tips for Sane & Stress-Free Wedding Planning

Every time I log onto my wedding website, a little countdown stares back at me: my wedding is in a month! Most of the big items are booked, signed, and paid for (at least in part). Our invitations have gone out and our registry is set up. For the first time, I am really start to ENJOY this wedding planning, or maybe I am enjoying the feeling of anticipation and excitement about the upcoming big day. In any case, judging by what I’ve read online, it seems as if I got pretty lucky in putting together a sane and relatively stress-free wedding, on a reasonable-to-us budget. So I wanted to share the 5 tips that really helped me in the wedding planning process.

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1. Set a wedding budget, but set a realistic budget.

Even a million-dollar wedding has a budget… of $1 million. Most of us won’t be spending that much (unless I have some very rich lurkers reading this blog!), but EVERYONE has a budget. Talk with your fiance, with your family, with yourself, and figure out how much it is you are 1. able to spend and 2. comfortable with spending. When I first got engaged, I had no idea what my budget should be. But that’s kind of Step 1 in the whole planning process.

Attempting to hold a $40,000 wedding on a $20,000 budget is a surefire way to get an aneursym, unless you have tons of vendor relationships, are prepared and capable of lots of DIY, or have hours and hours to burn on wedding planning and research. And even then… I cringe a little just imagining the stress! There is nothing so frustrating as to have a vision of what you want your wedding to look like and then realizing that it will cost double the money you need to make it happen. Remember that triangle – cheap, easy, and good. You only get to pick two. And if your wedding budget require you to go into debt, the personal finance blogger in me must inform you that your budget is not realistic.

On the other hand… there are no prizes in wedding budgeting. You don’t get a prize for spending $500 and you don’t get a prize for spending $50,000. After the vows are spoken and the cake is cut, you’ll be married and you will have the memories of that day. I would never jeopardize my financial future for a wedding, but I also decided that I am not going to set an arbitrary $5,000 limit when we want and can afford to spend $7,000.

2. Have a small guest list, hire a wedding coordinator, or use an all-inclusive venue.

A small wedding, all things equal, will be more inexpensive and easier to plan. You also have the advantage of fitting into unconventional venues that have a size limit of under 100. For example, my ceremony venue’s max limit is 75, while my reception area’s is 45. I am a huge fan of the small wedding for minimizing stress and stretching your budget. At a guest list of around 35, I can splurge on some pretty nice food and several flavors of cake. I need to address fewer invitations. I have a good handle on my RSVP list. I don’t need to plan out individual seating charts.

If you want to have a bigger wedding – many people find it difficult to cull their guest list because they are blessed with a big family and tons of friends – hire a wedding coordinator. A friend is hosting a 250-person wedding and told me that her wedding coordinator has helped her read over contracts, find vendors, negotiate rentals, etc. If you are having a big wedding and can’t hire a wedding coordinator, going with an all-inclusive venue will save a lot of time and work. Those venues typically have chairs, table, lighting, music, etc., and a dedicated venue wedding planner, so you will get some help in planning the event. They also make it easier to budget because there is one price that covers most of wedding elements.

3. Set up online RSVP.

You could say we went minimalist with our invites – all we sent out was the wedding invitation and a small card with our wedding website address. Guests can then RSVP for the reception via the website. This cuts down on the postage (our invites, even with very heavy cardstock, only cost $0.45 each) and speeds up the reservation process. I’m not sure what Emily Post would say about this method, but I love how quick and easy online RSVP has been. FYI, we have our wedding website on weddingwire.com, and it has an RSVP app that is very simple to use.

4. Believe that your guests love you and support you, and that if something you do inadvertantly offend them or create an inconvenience for them, they will still love you and support you.

This means that if you cannot fit onto your guest everyone you want, trust that those people whom you care for but cannot invite will understand. This means that if you have your wedding on a Friday or even a Tuesday or Wednesday, trust that your guests will won’t think less of you. Maybe you will have fewer people attending, but the folks who can’t make it will send you their well wishes. Or maybe you, like me, will only serve a spinach salad for appetizer. Trust that your guests won’t think that you are misers too cheap to provide a choice of baby greens or arugula. Even if they hate spinach.

Or maybe you can’t afford to serve a sit-down meal at all and instead do a cake-and-champagne reception, believe that your guests will have a good time and celebrate with you anyway. Or, maybe you, like us, are having only a honeymoon registry. Trust, like I am, that guests know that absence of a traditional registry does not indicate money-grubbing etiquette-less behavior, and that every gift – on registry or off – will be appreciated.

5. Care less.

Does a river try to break apart the rocks in its path? No, it flows round them. Is this a zen koan? No, I made it up myself.

But nonetheless! The principle applies: sometimes you can’t change things – you don’t have the money, you don’t have the time, you don’t have the power. Instead of stewing over this fact or getting angry, change what you can: your reaction. Put more succinctly: care less.

An example: CB’s wedding party won’t be in matching suits. We decided to ask his party to just get gray suits – and this way they can wear something they already have or choose something that fits their budget. Would I like them to wear matching outfits and coordinating ties? Well, yes. Aethestically, that would make a more pleasing composition. But I don’t want to put that kind of financial burden on them. And so my solution is… care less!

(It’s a little hard to believe I am getting married in a month. If you had told me, way back when I was 17, that I was going to marry the cute boy I had met after class, I would have thought you were crazy. Life is funny. And right now, it’s pretty great.)

Do you have any other tips to add?

What to do with a Windfall or Bonus

Thanks to a quarterly bonus, my bank account will be getting some extra love in the next paycheck. After 401K deduction and withholding for taxes, I should be seeing a $3,000 windfall. I am really happy about this boost, as I look into the future months and see only cash out without the corresponding cash in.

What to do with windfall money?

Save some

Check to see if you can have 401K / 403b taken out of your bonus checks. Or, you can always use a windfall to contribute to a Roth IRA, put into a down payment fund, or save for a shorter-term goal. 401K is taken out of my bonus check as well as regular paychecks, and although that makes my bonus look punier, it’s a good way to make sure I am “paying myself first.”

Spend some

Taking some of the windfall (5%? 10%? 20%?) to treat yourself is perfectly acceptable. And what do you know, there is NO shortage of ideas of where I can spend this money. icon wink What to do with a Windfall or Bonus In fact, I might use $50 or $100 to buy a bridal headband. If we were still planning on going to the Galapagos instead of raiding the kitty for graduate school, I would probably have put the whole thing into the Galapagos Fund.

Pay off debt

If you owe people / companies money, a windfall can go a long way in helping you out of indebtedness. Paying off high interest rate debt is probably the BEST return on your money in this environment (and can do wonders for your state of mind).

Here is where the bulk of my bonus check will go: directly into my MBA fund, which then will be spend down on the MBA experience. I am trying to motivate myself to minimize student loans by telling myself that every dollar I can put towards school is another dollar I wouldn’t have to repay, is another dollar that I can help CB with HIS tuition in two years is another dollar that we’d enjoy as a “free” dollar after we graduate.

How do you save/spend a windfall or bonus?

Save Money on Self-Storage

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These days, it pays to live a frugal lifestyle. Now, more and more families are riding out the economic climate by living in their budget and staying in their current homes, even if that means crowding into homes they’ve outgrown. If you’ve come to the point where you’re starting to fight with your family for elbow room, you may want to consider looking at home storage solutions away from home.

Finding nearby self-storage facilities may be the answer you are searching for, especially when having a yard sale just isn’t an option. Besides, do you really want to part ways with that expensive piece of furniture just because it’s somewhat in the way? Instead, you could place it in an affordable storage until the kids grow up and leave home.
Although renting a cheap storage unit is an additional monthly expense, many people find that it actually saves them time and money in their everyday lives. Listed below are some of the top reasons why you should rent a self-storage unit.

• Keep your most valuable possessions safe. Cheap self-storage doesn’t just provide extra space; it also offers top notch security for your most prized possessions. Family heirlooms and other valuables are kept under lock and key at well-lit facilities with extensive security systems.
• Make room for the items you use. Are your closets and cupboards overflowing with items you only use occasionally? Moving seasonal items into cheap storage units gives you easier access to the everyday items you actually get use out of.
• Downsize to a smaller home. Living in a smaller home will almost always save you money, and many people say that it also saves them time in maintenance and general upkeep. Self-storage companies let people live in smaller spaces while still being able to store their larger possessions.

Using storage is a great way to instantly provide yourself with more space when you need it. And storage prices are low enough that you can hang onto expensive furnishings and family heirlooms indefinitely, and not have to face the difficult decision about selling them to make room.

Storage costs do however vary by location, size, and amenities provided by that facility. To decide what storage prices you are comfortable with, it is important to make a list of what you want from the extra storage space. All the factors help define what you need and what you are willing and able to pay. Below are some tips to how you can make this an easier, less expensive decision.

• Rent a smaller unit. This sounds obvious, but the less space you rent the less you’ll spend. Before renting a unit, take a look at what items can be sold or given away if you don’t really need them. You might also save space by packing smaller items into stackable containers and disassembling larger items. Rates for mini storage units are often very affordable because the facility can offer more units for the amount of space they have versus a facility that only has larger units.
• Scout a new area. Storage costs in downtown business centers or near urban college campuses may be more expensive than what you’ll find a few miles outside of city limits due to high demand. A longer drive could save you a few bucks every month.
• Compare storage prices online. The Internet makes comparing self-storage prices fast and easy. Use a service like SpareFoot.com or SelfStorage.com to select the specific sizes and features you need.
• Consider the location of your unit. Ground floor storage units typically have premium storage rates while those located on the top floor may be cheaper because you have to haul your belongings up the elevator or stairs. If you can handle that then you should definitely consider renting one of those.
• Ask about discounts. Another way to get more for your money is to think about how long you are willing to invest in the extra storage space. For instance, signing a lease for at least a year can help negotiate a lower price. Long term storage will usually cost less per month than a short term storage unit of the same size. Many storage facilities also offer discounts to new customers and you may be entitled to discounts if you’re a student or member of the military.

Storage rates are also based on amenities. If you want air conditioning, climate or humidity control, or a higher level of security, such as a PIN keypad for your unit versus a combo lock, storage rates may be more expensive than others that do not offer these amenities. Clearly, these are all things you will need to consider in terms of balancing your wish list with your budget.

If you’re looking to simplify your daily life, cheap storage units can provide an inexpensive solution for the overflow that you don’t use every day but aren’t quite ready to get rid of.

This article was written by Matt Schexnayder who is on the SpareFoot marketing team. SpareFoot is the largest online marketplace for self-storage. With more than 5,000 self-storage facilities listed nationwide, SpareFoot offers consumers the most complete comparison shopping experience in the storage industry.

Thinking About My Debt Threshold

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A person’s debt threshold is not dissimilar in concept from their pain threshold – in both cases, there is a limit beyond which the discomfort is too much to bear. In both cases, neither pain nor debt is desirable but both can be tolerated to some degree. And, in both cases, the cut-off point can vary tremendously from person to person.

The comparison between these two types of thresholds has been on my mind recently as I move closer to graduate school. All the calculations that I do – and all the advice that I seek – suggests to me that a significant debt burden is not a reckless risk to take. Most graduates of top M.B.A. programs make six-figure salaries right out of the gate, meaning that loans totaling $70,000 or $80,000 should be easily payable with the right approach. My loans, in comparison, will be half that figure thanks to savings and family contributions. I really have no reason to doubt the risk that I’m about to take – at least as far as a cold, unemotional analysis would indicate.

But that’s where I return to this concept of the debt threshold. I’ve never been the kind of person who can tolerate pain well: I’ve been deathly afraid of bees ever since a childhood sting, I never push myself as hard as I’d like during workouts, and don’t even get me started about trips to the dentist. Perhaps this has translated over into my low debt threshold, or maybe it’s the magnitude of the numbers involved, the state of the economy, and the fact that my boyfriend will also be taking out loans that makes me hesitate to put myself that far into the red. Either way, I find that the two thresholds are similar in experience: you don’t know how much you can truly handle (of pain or of debt) until that level becomes a reality. I think the gut reaction to threshold limits is a worthwhile one, to a point. When my body tells me it can’t take any more pain, I’ll push myself just a little harder. When my gut decides that I’ve reached a debt limit, I’ll go slightly past that limit but not too far. It’s all about creating the right balance: I don’t want to take out so much debt that I’m constantly worried and stressed about retirement planning, but I also don’t want to limit my grad school options – and my future opportunities.

So when I take the plunge and pay that first tuition bill, I’ll be taking out loans that are uncomfortable by my standards yet conservative when compared with my peers. Hopefully this presents the optimal middle path, one that I don’t regret down the road.

What do you think? Do you have a debt threshold? Do you use this threshold to inform your financial decisions?

Saturday Wants: Fossil Vintage Shopper

I woke up in the middle of the night and did what every self-respecting personal blogger would do (not)… I went online shopping at Zappos. It feels so harmless buying things at Zappos, even thoug their prices are rarely the lowest I can find, because I know I can always return these items. Oh Zappos, how you reel me in with your fast and free shipping and your exemplary service…

Don’t worry, it was just window shopping. I had my eyes on the Fossil Shopper below. The birds motif has been done to death in the past couple of years, but I love the grey-and-purple palette, and the fact that it’s sized just a tad smaller than most totes. I promised myself that I wouldn’t buy anything new until I move to graduate school, because I will only have two suitcases to schlep most of my stuff.

Must. Resist.

fossil tote Saturday Wants: Fossil Vintage Shopper

Fossil Vintage Key-Per Shopper in Bird motif

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Help a 23-Year Old Reader Move Out & Set a Budget

A reader, let’s call him Ben, reached out to me and asked for some advice on getting started on the right (or left! har har) financial foot. I gave him my feedback – basically, keep your expenses low, build an emergency fund, and save for retirement even though you are only 23 - but I thought it’d be so helpful for you guys to chime in.

I’m a recent University of California college grad, recently employed full time, looking to move out of the parents’ house.

My employer does not include retirement contributions (hopefully they will by January). No health insurance to pay because I plan on staying on my parents’ plan until I’m 26.

Here are the numbers:

  • $3,000 a month before taxes, living in Los Angeles.
  • $264/month car lease that I’m stuck with.
  • Targeting $700-$850/month rent, splitting a place with one roommate
  • No 401k through employer so looking for some alternatives to putting money in a savings account.
  • Have $5,000 in savings right now.
  • Will have least $8,000 saved up by the time I move.

Thanks so much. Would love to hear your readers’ input. I had to wikipedia the 401k — it’s bizarre thinking about my retirement fund at 23.

Any quick advice on how much I can spend on rent/food on a $3,000/month pre-tax salary while still saving up? How much do you think I should save before I can make the plunge?Staying at home is not viable advice — I’m aware it’s the safest financial bet, but my heart is set on moving out.

So, wise readers, what advice do you have for Ben?

 

Long Distance Relationship & Getting Ahead Financially

long distance relationship Long Distance Relationship & Getting Ahead FinanciallyIn an ideal world, I doubt many people would move 3,000 miles away from their husband or wife a month after saying their wedding vows. But in the real world, that’s the situation CB and I are faced with, a move can save us some serious cash. That makes me wonder: would you enter into a long-distance relationship with your significant other because of financial reasons? Minimizing loans, attending a better school, securing a job, or winning a bigger promotion are all admirable goals, but what if they can only happen if you commit to living apart for hundreds or thousands of miles?

Long distance relationships and marriages and becoming more common, to the point that the US Department of State has coined a new term, “geographic singles.” Another term is “commuter marriage” or “weekend marriage,” representing folks who work too far apart to see each other during the week. During tough economic times, many couples are willing to live apart for a paycheck. Then there are the super LDRers who engage in transcontinental relationships and arrange for romantic weekends in Europe when one partner lives in the U.S. and another lives in Asia.

CB and I have always knew that a long-distance marriage would be in our future, for at least a few years. But we are now considering going from same-coast long distance (2 hour direct flight) to opposite-coast long distance (6 hour flight + layover = 8+ hours of travel). This is a move that could save us up to $50,000 in students loans. Is NOT having to repay $50,000 in loans (which would cost us $60,000 of net income once taxes and interest are factored in) worth putting 3,000 miles between the two of us for a year?

Long distance relationships and getting ahead financially: would you do it sometimes, always, or never?

Got a Ticket? Don’t Let It Increase Your Auto Insurance (by too much)

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A few months ago, I got a ticket on an “unsafe lane change.” Let’s just say that I will keep my opinion about the validity of that ticket to myself… What’s done is done, but I want to make sure I minimize the impact of a ticket on my auto insurance.

When you buy auto insurance from a new company or renew your existing policy, companies all check your driving record for accidents, claims paid, and moving violations (parking tickets are typically not included in this review). Here are four ways to make sure your auto insurance doesn’t skyrocket after getting a ticket.

  1. Contest the ticket. If you have reason or the stomach to contest a ticket, you can do so and potentially have it dismissed from your record. This not only saves you the cost of the ticket (which can range from hundreds to thousands of dollars), it will also preserve your driving record and therefore your current insurance rates.
  2. Take traffic school. If you are eligible for traffic school, make sure to take advantage of that option. Search online for an approved-but-cheaper option. Traffic school may cost you a few hours and a few hundred dollars, but it can help minimize the impact a ticket has on your insurance.
  3. Drive carefully – especially for the first 18 months after your ticket. Every state has different requirements on traffic school eligibility. If you are cited too many times in a short period of time, your license could be in jeopardy and your insurance costs will jump.
  4. Don’t drink and drive. A DUI (driving under influence) is a serious offense, and insurance carriers view drivers with DUI convictions as especially serious risks. A family member was arrested for a DUI and has paid over $10,000 in court costs, legal fees, and higher insurance costs.

Fess Up Friday: 5 Financial Stressers

The developments in my life – financial and otherwise – have left me very stressed out for the past several days.

stress Fess Up Friday: 5 Financial Stressers

The first stresser is the fact CB didn’t receive any financial aid to his graduate program… funding has not kept pace with the applicant pool and so most people that would have received scholarships in years past only have the option of loans this year. Given that tuition is $40,000 a year, that is a very worrisome development, indeed. We are working on a Plan B, and I am hoping it will come to fruition. Please keep your fingers crossed and pray to the deity of your choice for us. Amount of money I’m stressed about: $40,000/year.

The second stresser is that my wedding is less than 2 months away, and I still have not 1. sent out our invitations. 2. finished our invitations. 3. finished our wedding website. At this point, I really wish it would be appropriate to email everyone on my invite list and include a link to my half-finished wedding site.  Amount of money I’m stressed about: $0 because our invitations will be done as a gift, but email would be $0 AND stress-free!

The third stresser is that I am trying to find a roommate, find an apartment, and sign a lease cross-country. Fortunately, I am moving to a low cost of living area where a room can be had for $450+, so I am definitely looking forward to the cost savings that will bring.  Amount of money I’m stressed about: $6,600/year

The fourth stresser is that the application process DOES NOT END with an MBA acceptance. I had thought that I would have a bit of a break between getting my acceptance and the start of the recruiting season in the fall. Oh no. In fact, an MBA acceptance just brings with it applications to all sorts of pre-MBA programs and conferences that are excellent networking and career-building opportunities, no doubt, but which also require more essays, more resumes, more time. Amount of money I’m stressed about: $??? depending on which conferences I get into and travel fees to said conferences. But I’d be lucky to have that stress, because it means I would be accepted.

The fifth stresser is not so much a stresser as it is a bit of a disappointment. CB and I have decided that the $11,000 Galapagos Fund really can’t be used for a Galapagos trip right now. I realized that I can’t go when Emily at Evolving PF asked what my mom would advise me to do. And I just can’t find a way to bring it up to her and have it still sound rational and prudent. And that is how I know I shouldn’t go. Instead, we are going to keep that money saved and probably spend it next year on graduate school-related costs. I know many of you encouraged me to go, and trust me, I WILL go. It will just be in a few years. In the mean time, I am sure we will be taking shorter and cheaper trips to placate my wanderlust and satisfy my need for adventure. Amount of money I’m NOT stressed about: $11,000.

I was talking with Deena and Andrea on Twitter, and we agreed that when finances are stressful, we lose the will to blog. Isn’t that ironic for personal finance bloggers?  But it’s just so much easier to be cheery and upbeat when things are, well, cheery and upbeat. Any other blogger feel that way?

image credit: bottled_void via Flickr

If you have some stressers in your life, feel free to unload in the comments!

Committing to Financial Independence

From personal finance to financial independence

Even though I have been blogging about money, saving, budgeting, and investing for several years, I never really believed that I can achieve “financial independence” until I am ready to, well, retire in my sixties. The concept of financial independence seems so far away, seems to require far greater income or frugality that I can achieve. Frankly, I’m just not quite sure I want to put that GIANT goal out there and then fail.

Part of the problem is that I don’t know how to define “financial independence.” Or how much money I need to achieve this fiscal nirvana. Or how long it will take me. When so many unknowns are floating out there, it can be difficult to work up the motivation. To be honest with you guys, sometimes I feel as if I am just muddling along, and this dream of financial independence is off in the hazy horizon, forever out of reach.

But enough of that.

I KNOW folks out there are setting the big hairy audacious goal of achieving financial independence, and if they can do it, so can I. In fact, some of them have even taken the step of naming their blogs after that goal. icon wink Committing to Financial Independence

Financial independence: not just about numbers

There is a lot of information out there on crossover points and Monte Carlo simulations and all that technical jazz. A basic definintion of financial independence might be when your investments produce enough income for you to live off of, or when your investment income exceeds your expenses.

I don’t really see the point of calculating these things yet, because CB and I are both in our 20s, and I am certain that as we grow and change, our financial resources and needs will grow and change as well. So when it comes to financial independence, I don’t want to put any numbers out there, yet. Instead, I like to start my journey as a series of check marks and goals.

  • First up, I aim to keep our total graduate school loans (CB’s and mine) under $50,000. Then I’d like to pay off our loans so that we are DEBT-FREE (with the exception of a mortgage that we might take out) 3 years after graduate school.
  • Along the way, I want to continue to save aggressively for retirement by maxing out our Roth IRAs and 401Ks every year.
  • I also want to follow in my parents’ footsteps and begin investing in residential rental real estate. Eventually I may have to manage the properties they have acquired.
  • Of course, we need continue to build our careers, grow our income, and spend money on the things and experiences that matter to us.

Are you committed to financial independence (and what does that term mean to you)?

The Personal Finances of RMS Titanic

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This Saturday, April 14, 2012, was the 100th year anniversary of the sinking of RMS Titanic. Coincidentally, CB and I were in downtown San Diego that day and so we had to visit the Titanic exhibit at the San Diego National History Musueum. We paid $19.12 per person (a special pricing the Museum did to commemorate Titanic’s year of sinking, normal pricing is $27). The exhibit, in a word, was AMAZING.

Ticket Prices on the Titanic

Far more interesting than our ticket prices, however, are the information I learned about ticket prices for the scheduled 7-day passage on the Titanic. (See this website for a great description of the rooms available on Titanic).

First Class

A First Class ticket in a single room cabin cost around $150 per person (the equivalent of $2,000 in today’s dollars). A ticket for the multi-room parlor suites is $2,500 per person in 1912, or a whopping $52,000 today! Two suites on Promenade B were the largest and most luxurious on the ship, and those cost $5,000 per person or over $100,000 today. As you can imagine, to be able to pay those prices (and most folks traveled with a retinue of valet, bulters, and servants), First Class passengers had to be among the titans of industry and wealthiest members of the Gilded Age. They are definitely among the top “one percent of the one percent.”

Second Class

A Second Class ticket cost around $60/person, or around $1,500 today. Many of the Second Class passengers were successful tradespeople, businessmen, or the clergy. Most rooms had two berths (or beds). Because Titanic’s Second Class wasn’t full, many passengers got a private room even though they only paid for a single berth in a shared room. Another plus was that the First Class and Second Class used the same galley (kitchen facilities), so the Second Class passengers shared in some delicacies such as lamb with mint jelly and plum pudding. Some of the folks who could have afforded a Second Class passage instead booked Third Class tickets to save money for their new life in America. Speaking of…

Third Class

A Third Class (or Steerage) ticket cost $40/person, or around $900 today. These folks slept in rooms that had 2 bunk beds, so four people would share a room. Titanic provided 2 bathtubs for the entire 700+ steerage passengers, one for men, and one for women. But even the the Third Class passengers enjoyed luxuries that were unavailable on other ships – for example, there were real mattresses on the Titanic, whereas straw pallets were used on other ships.

The Titanic Exhibit

The Exhibit runs to September 9, 2012. If you have any interest in the Titanic, maritime history, shipbuilding, or anything of that ilk, you would have a very worthwhile visit. I was fascinated. We saw all kinds of items salvaged from the wreck – all in remarkable condition – a leather briefcase, a lady’s hankerchief, gold necklace, a porthole(!), plenty of porcelain, lockets with pictures, a corked bottle with champagne still inside, and a half-full jar of cold cream. There were also postcards, calling cards, and a brush with the bristles still attached.

The exhibition also did a great job of telling the story of the passengers from notable people like Thomas Andrews, the ship’s designer, to lesser-known folks. At the end of the exhibit all the names of the passengers were listed in alphabetical order, divided by class, and divided by their survival status.

I jokingly asked CB which class we’d sail on. Obviously we wouldn’t have been able afford First Class, but I was kind of thinking Second Class would be a good compromise. But CB told me Third Class to save money! Hmph. In any case, if you were a man on the Titanic, your chances of survival were low. If you were not in the First Class, your chances were even lower. I believe almost 90% of men in Second Class and Third Class went down with the Titanic.

May she rest in peace.

Fess Up Friday: Cheap Wedding Band Edition

I guess with today’s confession, if you meet me at the Financial Blogger Conference, you’ll know the band of sparkle on my finger is not the real deal.

cheap wedding ring later upgrade Fess Up Friday: Cheap Wedding Band Edition

How sentimental are you about your wedding bands? Is it OK to get cheap rings now and upgrade them later?

You’ll see from our $7,000 wedding budget that our wedding bands will only cost $70 total. CB bought a tungsten ring for $15, while I have budgeted $50 to get a simple sterling silver / CZ ring. Just a stand-in for a few years until we feel more comfortable spending the $1,000+ it’d cost to purchase a matching diamond & platinum band to go with my engagement ring.

Yesterday,  WorkSaveLive asked whether he should sell his wife’s wedding ring to pay off debt. Well you can imagine the kind of responses it generated! My situation is similar, but with a twist. Instead of selling an expensive wedding ring to pay off debt, we are holding off on an expensive wedding ring so we’d have the money to minimize our debt.

A few readers raised the issue that a wedding band is a sentimental piece of jewelry and that I should reconsider this whole notion of buying cheap now and upgrading later. I understand their concern, because it’s something I’ve thought about myself. How much do I value having the same ring that I am married with? Even among the budgety-minded, I don’t know of many bloggers who talk openly about wearing a costume jewelry ring with the exception of Little Miss Moneybags, who bought her CZ eternity ring (much like the one pictured) for $26 at the Limited.

I know CB will tell me to get the ring that I want, no matter the price. In fact, he has urged me to look at more expensive options at several points through the wedding planning process… he’s probably afraid I’m making all my decisions based on cost. He told me something along the same lines, that he doesn’t want me to regret not getting a ring that I’d love and want to keep forever. This is something I’ve thought about for a while. Although there is always the chance for regret, I am OK with my decision to get a cheap stand-in ring now.

  • I’m surprisingly not too sentimental about things (although you could argue otherwise, given my reluctance to sell my grandmother’s jewelry even in the face of historic gold prices).
  • I am not a big ring-wearer. In fact, sometimes I go days or even weeks without wearing my engagement ring. And when I do wear it, I worry about it getting lost or damaged. It seems an awful a lot of responsibility to wear a couple thousand dollars or more on your hand.
  • Fashion jewelry would suffice for everyday wear, with the added plus of not having to worry about insuring the ring, losing the ring, caring for the ring, etc.
  • Technically, we could get the $1,500 for a diamond and platinum ring… I have a bonus coming up, and we do have money in the bank. But with graduate school and its attendant loans looming in the distance, and my refusal to downgrade our honeymoon, I don’t think spending four figures on a piece of jewelry is the right move right now.
  • And last but not least, I figured if my ring is the only thing I regret about my marriage, I’d be coming out ahead!

Having said ALL that, just in case you think I am somehow immune to social expectations (HA!) or am 100% comfortable with my decision, I must confess: there is still something strange about wearing a CZ ring having people know that I am wearing a CZ ring, even if those folks are just personal finance buddies. icon wink Fess Up Friday: Cheap Wedding Band Edition It seems like there is something more “official” about having a proper ring in a precious metal, giving the occasion the gravity it deserves. Then again, when your budget is $50, your options are limited.

Would you ever buy a cheap stand-in ring with the thought of upgrading later (or never)? How sentimental are you about your wedding ring?