The Engagement Ring: Do you know how much he spent?

CB and I are pretty open about our finances. We share our goals and make saving a big priority. I have learned, however, that openness has a limit – CB absolutely refuses to tell me how much he spent on my engagement ring.

ring 21 300x227 The Engagement Ring: Do you know how much he spent?Okay one more ring shot! (I actually can’t wear the ring yet because it has to be resized and insured. So please indulge me my pictures.)

On the one hand, I’m really curious – and a little scared – of how much he spent. On the other hand, I am also relieved because I can just go on enjoying my beautiful ring without feeling like we should have saved the money for something else.

Here’s what I do know: CB got the ring at Costco – woohoo! – and that the price fit into his budget and he paid for the ring with cash. That makes me happy. He drove to Costcos all over town trying to find something that he knew I’d like but that he also found pretty (I wouldn’t say that we have the exact same taste when it comes to rings). The fact that he put so much time and energy into picking out a ring that I love, all by himself, makes me very happy.

I’ve talked about my interest in nontraditional engagement rings. I had thought that we were picking out my ring together, so when I was looking at rings I concentrated on mostly moissanite and gemstone rings under the $1,000 mark. We share our goals and make saving a big priority, whether buying gifts, doing a free IRS efile, or grocery shopping, but on this point CB is a being a traditionalist and keeping mum about the price.

So, I feel a little guilty about the money. But call me a hypocrite because, well, I adore my very traditional diamond engagement ring. I love the bezel setting. The milligrain edging. The pave diamonds. I’ve never worn a diamond before, and wow, does it sparkle. In fact, I love this ring so much that I have decided I will keep it as my only ring. It can double as my wedding band. Plus, no need to buy an additional ring.

Ladies, do you know how much your ring cost? Do you WANT to know? Also, does anyone wear only their engagement ring, no wedding band?

The magic of blogging

Thank you to everyone who sent me good wishes and congratulations. Can you believe it, I’m engaged! CB has already started throwing “fiancee” around – at least inside the house – but I’m finding it just a little funny. I am still resisting the urge to adopt a faux English accent and say “my betrothed“.

A reader and fellow blogger actually emailed me about 2 seconds after my engagement post was up. As I’ve told her, one of the best things about having a blogging community is that there are so many people other than my immediate family and friends who will be happy and excited for me. And that makes this even better.

So thank you, everyone. Every one of your comments made me smile.

P.S. Don’t forget my big Amex Gift Card giveaway is still going on!

Smiles

I just had one of those really really fun and happy weekends. CB and I went for a little getaway in lovely San Diego (aka future retirement site). We booked ourselves a room at a bed & breakfast housed in a wonderfully restored 19th century Victoria mansion.

BrittScrippsInnJLK 209x300 SmilesThen we spent the day at the Balboa Park, where we went to see the All That Glitters jewelry exhibition at the Natural History Museum. Did you know that California’s state gem is the benitoite? It is a rare blue gemstone that is only found in San Benito County, CA.

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The next morning CB and I woke up early, watched a few episodes of HGTV from our bed, then sauntered downstairs to the dining room. We were served a delicious breakfast of tea, scones, poached eggs, and bacon (I know, my detox? so NOT going well). Then CB suggested we take a walk around the small garden out back.

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We walked around for a bit. Then CB told me to walk up the stairs to go inside. When I turned around, CB was on one knee, holding up something shiny. He asked, and I said YES! We hugged and he made me say yes again before he gave me the engagement ring. He said he wanted to hear me say yes one more time. engagement ring 300x187 Smiles

5 Great Ways to Spend a Raise

Congratulations, you got a raise! Now what?

At my annual performance review, I received a good-sized raise that translates to $200-$300 a month, depending on how 401K and taxes shake out. While the raise was a couple of percentage points lower than what I had asked for, I am appreciative and happy about it all things considered. I am happy that I got this raise and I am happy that my contributions at work are being recognized. On the personal finance front, this raise will go a long way in helping me meet my goals for 2011.

Now, what to do about this extra money? No matter what I do, I don’t want to fritter this raise away. I worked really hard this past year to earn this raise, and I want the extra money to work hard for me too.

Here are 5 great ways to spend a raise:

1. Save the raise for a retirement

If I weren’t already contributing the maximum to my 401K or Roth IRA, retirement is the first place I’d look. Banking the raise is a relatively painless form of saving (after all, you’ve already managed to live without it, right?), and even if you only increase your current contribution levels by a percentage or two, your retirement fund will still reap benefits down the road. New York Times has a nifty tool called The 1% More Savings Calculator to show the fantastic effects of increasing savings by just one more percentage point (or even better, another percentage point a year up to 16%).

2. Pay down debt

If you have high-interest rate debt such as credit card debt, use this raise to accelerate your payment. The interest offered by banks and credit unions are so low right now that whatever money you can put to debt will probably save you money in the long run. Mortgage, credit card, student loans, car note- a raise can help get rid of these debts faster and save you hundreds or thousands of dollars in interest payments. I still have $12,000+ in student loans, but because they are zero-interest loans, it doesn’t make sense for me to pay them back early.

3. Bulk up cash savings / emergency fund

It’s rare that you will find yourself in an emergency and say, d’oh! I have too much cash. (If you are that person, then please, I’d like to have your problem). So I could put the raise into my general cash fund (i.e. my Freedom Fund) which is basically earmarked for graduate school. A few hundred dollars a month can add up quickly, especially if I am consistent with the saving.

4. Save the raise for a big-ticket purchase

I could start putting more money into the Galapagos Fund. Once I get engaged, I might want to start saving for a wedding. But I don’t want many big-ticket item (not even a wedding) that much, other than expensive and glorious adventure travel.

5. Invest in yourself

If there are workshops, coaching, or materials that will help you become more successful, take some of that hard-earned raise and reward yourself. If you need to update your wardrobe, do so (even though it’s not strictly a monetary investment!).

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Admin Appreciation Week Giveaway: $50 Gift Card for 5 Lucky Winners!

thankyouamex Admin Appreciation Week Giveaway: $50 Gift Card for 5 Lucky Winners!Administrative Professionals Week is April 24-30. To celebrate support staff for all of their hard work, American Express has created a Recognize and Reward Sweepstakes at ForEverythingYouDo.com, where professionals can recognize a standout administrative professional, colleague or peer and enter them to win Gift Card prizes.

Thanks to the generous sponsorship of American Express, I will be giving away FIVE $50 gift cards  with a winner for each day Monday to Friday. The contest will conclude on Saturday April 30 12 midnight PST.

Five lucky winners will be announced at the end of this week, on Sunday May 1. So… get set, go!

To enter:

You must leave a blog comment about the most memorable “thank you” that they received from a colleague, manager or supervisor.

Additional entries:

1. Twitter: Tweet this post (you can tweet once per day, up to 5 entries): @WellHeeledBlog is giving away 5 $50 AmEx Gift Cards for Admin Appreciation Week http://tinyurl.com/amexgiveaway

2. Facebook: One entry for a post on your wall with a link to this giveaway (you can post once per day, up to 5 entries): WellHeeledBlog is giving away 5 $50 AmEx Gift Cards for Admin Appreciation Week http://tinyurl.com/amexgiveaway

3. Blog: One entry for a post about this giveaway (you can post once per day, up to 5 entries).

Please leave the links with the additional entries in the comment so I can count them.

In addition, separate from this blog contest, you can also help your administrative professional win BIG prizes from American Express. Supervisors, bosses and business-professionals can express gratitude by nominating an administrative professional, peer or colleague from their LinkedIn Network into ForEverythingYouDo.com. The person with the most nominations will receive a $2,500 Gift Card and 100 others will be randomly selected to win $25 Gift Cards.

“Investment Clothing”: Investments That Aren’t

When is an “investment” not an investment?

When it comes to “investment clothing” or “investment pieces.”

According to dictionary.com, the first definition of “investment” is:

the investing of money or capital in order to gain profitable returns, as interest, income, or appreciation in value.

Despite what fashion magazines say, clothing is not an investment

The fashion world love touting the idea of “investment” clothes or an “investment” wardrobe. Every season, editors rave about new “investment pieces” or “statement looks.” Want some Louboutins? They are an investment in your shoe collection! How about an Armani suit? An investment in looking professional! An Hermes purse? An investment accessory!

Don’t get me wrong, I agree that we should have classic, high-quality pieces that will last us through at least three or five years – cheap rayon shirts and skirts do not a wardrobe make. I agree that we should buy what we love, instead of what’s on sale. I agree that having well-fitted and appropriate clothing is absolutely essential to many careers. There is nothing wrong with buying beautiful clothes (I love clothes and would probably spend far more money on them if I could!), but it’s wrong to call shopping an investment.

Most of the time the idea of an “investment piece” is used to convince us to buy really, really, expensive items that have no prospect of appreciating in value. A Bottega Veneta handbag is absolutely stunning, but I think it’s going a wee bit far to call it an investment. There are a few luxury brands that hold their value well (Chanel, Hermes come to mind), but they are the exception rather than the rule.

Like most ladies I know, I admire well-constructed jackets, supple leather purses, stylish little black dress. I may even buy an expensive piece that goes perfectly with everything else in my wardrobe. I may even buy an expensive dress that I plan to keep for the next ten years. All that is great, but that doesn’t mean I’ve made an investment.

I feel like a curmudgeon, because who doesn’t like beautiful clothes that fit and flatter? But as personal finance expert Manisha Thakor says, clothing is not an investment!

Galapagos Fund at 50%!

galapagos penguins 225x300 Galapagos Fund at 50%!Today marks a milestone:

The Galapagos Fund has crossed the $5,000 line. We are officially 1/2 of the way there to our $10,000 goal.

I can’t believe it has already been a year since we first started the fund. The $10K goal was daunting from the get-go. When I first wrote about this goal, it was a 4-5 year plan. Then I thought, heck, life is short. I want to go see the turtles NEXT YEAR.

So the new goal is to go to Galapagos in Spring or Summer of 2012. Which means we have just about a year to save up the remaining $5,000.

Here’s how we got to the first $5,000:

  • April 5, 2010: We open the account and fund it with $500.
  • May 31, 2010: By the end of May, with measly interest and some of my freelance money, the balance has grown to $1,031.30
  • June-September 2010: We didn’t put any money in. We get about $1 a month in interest. By the end of September our balance is $1,035.08
  • October 31, 2010: $300 of freelance money + $1.01 in interest means we now have $1,336.09
  • November 30, 2010: Thanks to CB’s overtime (and the $1-plus in interest), we break the $1.5K mark to reach $1,587.41
  • December 31, 2010: HUGE month for the Galapagos Fund thanks to a sudden burst of saving on CB’s part and a work bonus on mine. We end the year with a cool $3,500.00
  • January – February 2011: Just interest. Balance at $3,508.54
  • March 31, 2011: More freelance money goes into the pot. Pot grows to $4,168.48
  • April 19, 2011: $5,613.48! Thanks to CB’s tax refund and my side hustle, we are half way to Galapagos, baby.

We are not as good about eating at home as we could be (understatement of the year), or else this fund would be much plumper. As you can see, we try to put in a few hundred at a time, and sometimes we don’t add to the fund for a few months at a time. But slowly, the money is adding up.

I am so excited about this trip – I don’t even know where I first HEARD of Galapagos. Ever since I started reading about the islands, though, I can’t get them out of my head. I am afraid that I’ve built it up to be so great that the actual vacation can’t possibly match my expectations. In fact, I googled “overrated” and “Galapagos” to try to gauge the experiences of those who were unimpressed with their trip. But I guess I’ll see when I actually go. I’ve also got bitten by the safari bug (see Madame X’s post about the glorious trip she took to Botswana) and have begun to hound CB about going on a safari after Galapagos. icon wink Galapagos Fund at 50%!

Another $5,000 by April 2011… can we do it? I certainly intend to! It will be so fantastic. I can’t wait to go on this adventure, and I can’t wait to blog all about it.

1. Do you have a travel goal you are saving for?

2. Also, if you have visited the Galapagos, did you think it was worth the time, money, and energy? Would you consider it a “overrated”? I can take brutal honesty!

photo credit: James Preston via Flickr

Coupled Up = Money in the Bank

Are there financial benefits to being in a relationship?

swan couple 300x193 Coupled Up = Money in the BankGlobe and Mail recently came out with an article about the true cost of being a singleton. (By the way, I just recently discovered Globe and Mail. I love it!). It seems a little unfair to me how the world is structured for couples, but I will take my breaks where ever I can get them.

I do think there is a slight distinction in between in a relationship and living together vs. being in a relationship and living apart. Most of the benefits accrued to coupled people are because they live together, in fact, as anyone in a long-distance relationship will tell you, being in love and apart can get expensive, fast.

Since CB and I started living together, here are the few ways that our relationship has saved me money.

Living expenses

In the few years since I graduated college, I have gone through several living arrangements. I’ve lived with a roommate, lived by myself, and now am sharing an apartment with a significant other. Living with CB means that we can split the groceries, DSL, utilities, and rent. I am paying about $300 less than I would be if I were to live alone. The biggest benefit I see to cohabitation is the fact that two married / partnered people can live in a studio or one-bedroom apartment, an arrangement that wouldn’t be possible with roommates. A one-bedroom apartment is quite a bit cheaper than a two-bedroom. There’s also the sharing of resources that occurs: two people living together don’t need two separate internet connections or Netflix accounts or cable subscriptions.

We made the decision to live together because it made sense for our relationship (I think most people would agree that moving in solely for financial reasons isn’t the best idea), but it’s a big perk that living together is so good for our budgets.

Travel

One of the best things about coupling up, I think, is that you will always have a good travel buddy. Given how busy everyone is, I have a hard enough time scheduling dinners with my friends. It’d be 1000x more difficult to plan a big, expensive trip that matches everyone’s tastes and schedules (I am still a little sad that our girls’ cruise 2009 never happened). I can travel alone, but I’m the kind of person where I’d have much more fun and I’d feel safer if I am going with someone else. Plus, if I go on a big trip by myself, it would be very, very expensive.

The dreaded single supplement is alive and well. Most travel prices are quoted with double occupancy, which means that if I were to go alone, my best choices are to hope for a good roommate or to fork over the extra dough for a private room. The Galapagos cruise we are saving up for, for example, costs around $4,000-$5,000 per person. A single supplement would add another $1,000 to the total price.

Food

I actually am not sure if I am saving money in this regard, but if I cook more, I can buy in bulk. It doesn’t cost double the price to cook for two people than it does for one. I will admit that being in a relationship has prompted me to eat out more though – there’s always a willing dining buddy in CB!

Personal Care & Grooming

A few months ago I wrote about a lady who spends $10,000+ a year on dating and related purchases. So I don’t have that pressure of looking fabulous every single minute of every day – which I take advantage of, liberally (sorry CB!). Still, I’m pretty sure that my personal care and grooming expenses are what they would be if I were single. Most of the “beautifying” things I do (facials, pretty dresses, lipstick) are for myself – because, well, I want to look good! And this might not be politic to admit, but I hope CB never thinks I’ve “let myself go,” so I try to do what I can to look moderately attractive for us both. At least a few days a week!

But I don’t spend $10K on dating activities when I’m coupled, and I don’t foresee increasing my “dating budget” much even if I were single (although, to be honest, I would probably spring for an online dating membership).

Gifts

This is an area where being in a relationship definitely costs couples more. Birthdays, Valentine’s Day, anniversaries, etc., all these holidays and “milestone” occasions add up, also, don’t forget the “just because” gifts that can add to the relationship goodwill. But, in the case of giving gifts to a 3rd party, I suppose couples have the opportunity to go dutch on a gift, effectively splitting the cost in half.

Do you think it’s cheaper being a couple than being single? Any other costs or perks that I’ve overlooked?

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My 21 Day Detox

Detox diets and cleanses are big business, especially among young professional women. Prices can range up to hundreds of dollars a day, with organic juice cleanses delivered straight to your door. But I don’t want to spend hundreds of dollars to go on a detoxification diet. With so many resources available, I can design my own detox diet (which will be MUCH more lenient than any of these detox diets I’ve read about), which won’t cost me any money at all.

From tomorrow Monday, April 18 to Sunday, May 8, I am embarking on a self-style detox.

As someone who is utterly devoted to epicurean pleasures, I won’t be going on a fast or a liquid diet- I fear for the safety of those around me if I were to stop eating! Instead, I’ll make my 21 day detox period a time to develop cleaner, leaner, and healthier eating habits.

My dietary habits range somewhere between lackluster and atrocious. They are not healthy for how I feel on the inside nor how I look on the outside. I hope that 21 days of detox will kick start a better eating regime, which should in turn give me more energy.

Here is everything I am giving up on my detox:

  • Caffeine (including lattes and black tea)
  • Red meat – this will be difficult as I am a HUGE meat-lover, so I’ve built in a cheat day (see below)
  • Alcohol
  • Cookies and cakes
  • Crackers
  • Cheese
  • White bread
  • White rice and pasta
  • Any drink that is not water, milk, soy milk, or tea
  • Fries, including sweet potato fries (my absolute favorite)
  • Butter
  • Airline salted peanuts
  • Jam
  • Bacon (again, I love bacon, so this will be hard)
  • Pizza
  • Ice cream (sob)

Here is what I will allow myself to have:

  • Fish
  • Chicken 1x a week
  • Red meat (probably a burger!) once during the 21 days
  • Unsweetened oatmeal
  • Water (hot, cold, with lemon, etc.) – I will drink 8 oz a day (6 if I drink a lot of tea)
  • Green tea and white tea
  • Low-fat milk, soy, and yogurt
  • Vegetables (preferably steamed)
  • Fruits
  • 85% dark chocolate (hey, at this concentration, it’s practically an antioxidant!)
  • Whole grains
  • Brown rice
  • Eggs
  • Baked sweet potatoes
  • I can cheat on the sweets / cookies / cakes ONE TIME

Originally, I had thought about delaying this detox because I will be traveling heavily for the next 3 weeks. But when is it EVER a good time to change one’s diet habits? If I use the “it’s  a bad time” excuse, I will never start. For some people, my “detox” might be a day of exceptionally bad eating, but for me, it’s truly a 180 in how I eat.

Aside from the physical benefits, I also hope this detox will also confer financial benefits. I should be more limited in going out to restaurants. Even if I do go out to a restaurant, I’d be ordering steamed veggies, which should be cheaper than steak and potatoes.

If you’d like to join in on the detox (or have previous experience with detoxes), please chime in!

Buying a Triplex Apartment

This is a Guest Post from Paula from the personal finance and lifestyle blog AffordAnything.org.

My friend’s single mom has a problem: she hasn’t saved much for retirement. By “not much,” I mean she’s in her 60′s and has saved less than $30,000. She has no pension — her only source of retirement income is Social Security. Eek!

My friend, obviously, worries about how he’s going to help his mom retire. His grandfather left an inheritance in the form of property: a bare plot of land in the middle of nowhere. My friend knew that his mom could sell it for cash — but, realistically, that cash would run out quickly during retirement.

A few years ago, my friend hit upon a brilliant idea: why not sell the rural family land and use the proceeds to buy an income-generating rental house?

He came up with this idea in 2008 after the housing market collapsed, and it worked like a charm: he sold property that wasn’t generating any income, used the cash to buy a five-bedroom house close to the local university, and voila — his mom now has about $2,200 per month in rental income. After paying for property taxes, home insurance and maintenance, she usually pockets about $1,800 per month. It’s not an enormous amount, but with her modest lifestyle it’s enough for her to retire on, especially since her own house is fully paid off.

“What a fantastic idea,” I thought in 2008 when I learned about it. “I should do that, too, especially now that houses are so cheap.”

Two years later my boyfriend and I decided to buy a house. (We saved for a down payment the old-fashioned way: shuttling several hundred dollars from each paycheck into a money-market account). We agreed on one key principal: if we ever have to rent out our home, the rental income it generates should be higher than the mortgage, insurance, taxes and water bill combined.

We came to this conclusion, in part, because we’re not sure how committed we are to living in Atlanta. It’s a great city, but I’m 27: am I really living in the last city that I’ll ever call home? I feel too young for that.

The housing market is in the slumps, and no one knows how long it will stay there. This is great news for us as buyers. But we don’t want to be forced to be a seller. If we move to another city, we don’t want to become a “motivated seller” — we want the luxury of owning the house until we’re in a strong seller’s market.

With this in mind, we started keeping our eyes peeled for houses in the hip, urban core of the city. This is where young professionals live: the part of the city inhabited by 25-to-35-year-olds working as graphic designers or entry-level law associates. They’re stable and mature enough to be responsible renters with good credit, but not quite cashed-up enough to buy their own home.

Single-family homes in this trendy urban area are expensive. The neighborhood we want to live in is an area where you can walk to everything: restaurants, bars, concert venues, yoga studios, vintage shops. Everyone wants to live in this neighborhood, so single-family homes come at a high premium; the rent we could collect on one is much lower than the mortgage.

Duplex or triplex homes are much more reasonable: we can collect rent on each unit, which add up cover the mortgage. Plus the overhead is lower on a multi-unit home: for the cost of maintaining one yard, replacing one roof, and paying one property tax bill, we can own several units.

There’s another, more personal reason my boyfriend and I decided to buy a triplex: it offers flexibility. At this point in our lives, we love living with roommates; if we lived alone, just the two of us, we’d quickly get bored with each other. (It helps that our two roommates are, well, the perfect roommates. We’re like a little family.)

But it’s possible that in a few years, we might decide we’re tired of roommates and opt for a one-bedroom. And perhaps in a few more years, we might marry and decide we want kids, at which point we’ll need 2 or 3 bedrooms. Owning a triplex with a variety of unit sizes — like a 3-bedroom, a 2-bedroom and a 1-bedroom — will give us those options. We can live in whichever unit fits our immediate needs, and we can “upgrade” or “downsize” without having to incur the costs and hassle of buying and selling.

We decided on this vision before we started looking at places, so once we began the search, we knew what we were looking for and found our ideal triplex right away: a 99-year-old building walking distance to Atlanta’s central and most beautiful park. It featured an enormous three-bedroom unit, a very generous one-bedroom unit, and a modest one-bedroom unit.

While most couples examine the beauty of a home before they buy it, we examined the numbers: the rental history, the property taxes, the water bill. We threw all the numbers into a spreadsheet, factored a 10 percent presumed vacancy rate, and realized this triplex fit the bill.

There was one caveat: it’s in an egregious state of disrepair. Its foundation is sinking. Its floorboards are rotting. The siding is peeling off. The gutters are nonexistent. The home is the very definition of a fixer-upper. Have you ever seen that Tom Hanks movie The Money Pit, featuring a beautiful old home that’s completely falling to pieces? That is this house — except this house is worse, it even has foundational problems.

If my boyfriend weren’t a civil engineer who put himself through college rehabilitating old homes, I wouldn’t have touched it. And indeed, no one else wanted the building: it sat on the market for 16 months before my boyfriend and I inquired about it. Thanks to all that, we bought it far below market price.

We’ll have to pay tens of thousands to repair the house; we know that. But we’ll also be collecting rent that covers everything: mortgage, insurance, taxes and water. The two single-bedroom units are occupied. Starting this fall, we’ll move into the three-bedroom unit with our two roommates. The roommates plus other renters will cover the cost of the mortgage. We’ll chip in $1,000 per month towards repairs and upgrades. I envision a win-win for everyone: the renters get a place that’s being upgraded and beautified, while my boyfriend and I rest assured that repairs and upgrades are our only housing expense.

If you have invested in small multi-unit housing such as duplexes, triplexes, or 4-plexes, please share your experience in the comments!

A career in Marketing

This guest post is written and sponsored by Westwood.edu

Many people have an incorrect perception of what a career in marketing entails. Unlike the television show depicts, you don’t earn your marketing degree and then sit in an office all day smoking cigarettes and sipping scotch. Don’t worry though because what you actually do is much more fun.

A marketing degree opens up a whole host of opportunities because the field itself is so diverse and wide reaching.  Your degree will help you understand the power of media in all forms and give you the skills to effectively communicate your knowledge and creativity in a way that enhances you client’s product or service. Your job is to identify what your clients are looking for and then brand their offering in a way that makes it irresistible.

Once you have earned your marketing degree a few of the career paths that open to you are:

Marketing manager- You are potentially responsible for several departments whose job it is to determine market demand, profitability, and spearhead market strategies. Marketing managers oversee the day to day operations in place to meet the marketing and branding needs of their clients.

Product Manager- You will be responsible for a specific brand or product and charged with the task of ensuring its continued success among competitors regardless of what type of media is being utilized.

Advertising Manager- There are three paths to this career choice, either the business side which includes individual account management and account planning or the creative side in which you are building the marketing strategies for a company or individual product. The third option in advertising management is in the field of public relations. Though you are not directly responsible for the marketing campaigns you would work very closely with those who are in order to maintain a favorable public perception of your brand or product.

The career choices in marketing are nearly limitless after graduation which means that you can tailor your career to fit your individual strengths and passion. Having this flexibility will ensure that you can get the most out of your chosen profession while still remaining excited by its possibilities.

The Curious Case of Hotel WiFi

Has anyone noticed that while the hostels and cheaper hotels are unfailingly generous with free internet access, the most expensive and nicest establishments are still stuck in the $15-$20 PER DAY for WiFi?

I can get free wifi at the local Youth Hostel International but Four Seasons and InterContinental will charge you up the wazoo. The nicer hotels generally cater to business people or vacationers, and may assume that the former can charge the hotel access to their companies and the latter don’t care much about staying connected to the internet.

Still. I just hope that this trend changes, and that providing reliable and free internet access become as much a marker of hospitality and quality as having comfortable bedding and good ventilation.

Financial Blogger Conference 2011

I’m debating whether I should go to the Financial Blogger Conference or not. There are several bloggers there that I would love to meet in person (see here for a list of who’s coming), but Chicago is quite a distance from where I’m at. Also, what to do about this whole anonymity thing? I’m not sure it would be possible to meet people in person and still preserve the mystery. Maybe I can make up a fabulous new identity for myself? icon wink Financial Blogger Conference 2011

The super early bird conference ticket season is done by April 15, so I would have to make a decision by Friday.

Looking at the numbers, here’s how much I think it would cost for me to attend:

  • Conference ticket: $90
  • Round trip flights: $500
  • Hotel: $100?

I would at least budget $700 for this trip. For 1.5 days. Plus 4-5 hours of travel, each way. On the plus side, I’ve never been to Chicago before, and Brad of Enemy of Debt said that this conference is providing him ample motivation to lose weight and look great. I have been a little too liberal with the cookies lately, so perhaps I also need this peer pressure -just like high school reunion without the baggage- to get my exercise regime started again. Bar Method, back I come?

I am also kind of kicking myself for choosing a blog name that suggests I have style, as I now feel the pressure to wear something stylish. Especially shoes. At least it’s not a fashion blogging conference. Can you imagine the pressure?

Back to the Financial Blogger Conference – are there any bloggers who are trying to decide about going?

Tax Procrastinators, Unite!

Given that the tax filing deadline (April 18) is less than a week away, I think it’s safe to designate everyone who hasn’t filed his/her taxes yet a tax procrastinator.

Yes, I count yours truly in this category. But I have a good reason! I owe $1,300 on my taxes for 2010, so I am not eager to transfer my cash over to the IRS. I actually have put in all my information in my tax software program, now all I am waiting to do is to click the button.

I would much rather get a tax refund than to owe money, even though with a refund I am technically giving the government an interest free loan. The truth is I LIKE tax refunds – they are an enforced way of saving. Not to mention that given today’s historically low interest rates, the interest you would have missed out on probably can’t even buy a cup of latte.

Who is a tax procrastinator here? Are you procrastinating because you owe money or because, well, you are just dawdling? icon wink Tax Procrastinators, Unite!

Is Roth IRA Bad for America’s Fiscal Future?

Most personal finance bloggers (this one included) love the Roth IRA. Contribute to a plan with after-tax money, then watch your funds grow unencumbered by taxes. And, when you are ready to withdraw, you don’t have to pay taxes either. But what’s good for the individual might not be good for the collective whole. LA Times columnist Gerald Scorse has damning words for Roth IRA, calling it a “fiscal Frankenstein.” I never thought about it this way, but might my favorite retirement vehicle be bad for America’s fiscal health?

There’s no tax break on contributions. But from that point on, taxes simply vanish. As long as the account is at least 5 years old, there is no tax on any withdrawals made after age 59 1/2. There’s no requirement that you make a minimum withdrawal — after age 70 1/2, or ever.

All of which makes Roths a perfect “fiscal Frankenstein.” In return for little more than ordinary upfront taxes, Congress waived untold billions in future Treasury receipts. Then, too, Roths could be a drag on the U.S. economy. Since no withdrawals are required, assets can lie idle indefinitely.

For Roth holders, the accounts become a permanent, federally sanctioned tax shelter. For America, they’re a bit like toxic instruments on the nation’s books.

Scorse acknowledges that the Roth is a good deal for individuals, but that’s not enough. He concludes:

Whatever the answer for individuals, there’s little doubt that Roths are wrong for America. They’re Frankensteins, fated to wreak havoc. It’s time to retire Roth IRAs.

What do you think? Even though I think this retirement vehicle rocks, are Roth IRAs toxic for our nation’s future fiscal health?

Countdown to the Shutdown

This whole thing is ridiculous. First 1995, now this? Economists disagree on the effects of the shutdown; if the shutdown just last a few days, but it can have catastrophic effects if it drags out to almost 3 weeks, as it did in 1995.

I won’t be directly affected by the shutdown (not to the extent that Federal government employees will be or service workers at national parks will be), but I am sure I will feel the ripple effects. For example, the stock markets hate uncertainty, so my portfolio might take a little hit.

How will a government shutdown affect your work and your personal economy?

20 Ideas for a Cheaper Night Out

Today’s guest post is by “Wojo” Kulicki, author of the personal finance blog Fiscal Fizzle. Thanks Wojo!

A lot of young people love to go out—whether it’s clubbing, bar-hopping, eating out, or a wide variety of other expensive entertainment options. Some people can still afford it, but more and more are finding that their income is having a hard time keeping up with their lifestyle.

I’m finding that many of us are willing to get very creative when put “under the gun” of a strict budget, debt repayment plan, or a cut income. Things that were needs suddenly become wants and get shoved to the side. Nevertheless, entertainment is still something we want to engage in, so what’s a 20-something to do?

Here is a list of 20 alternatives to going out—some I’ve tried personally, some suggested by friends and colleagues, and some learned by observation. If you’re finding it increasingly hard to entertain yourself by spending a night out on the town, maybe it’s time to give one of these a whirl:

Dance lessons.

If you’re like my wife, you love going out because dancing is fun. But she’s also perfectly content spending the night at a dance lessons improving her moves!

Board game night.

A staple of low-budget get-togethers, the right board or group game can really make the night last into the morning. My favorite? Catch Phrase.

Music session.

Do you sing? Got a buddy that plays piano? You’ve got yourself a night full of awesome music. </li>

Sports league.

While the bars and clubs are starting to fill on a Friday night, there are softball, soccer, and tennis tournaments going on right in your town!

Go to free community events.

At least once a week, there’s a free concert going on in the community park down the street. On the first Saturday of the month, there’s also a free movie night.

Tasting.

For many, one of the major appeals of going out is the alcohol. Why not attend a wine tasting instead, or better yet—have your friends bring over the wildest samplings they can and share!

Be in the vicinity.

Some people just love the buzz and atmosphere of nightlife. Head downtown and people-watch or walk the strip.

Be a designated driver.

If you just can’t pass up going out, but can live without the drinking, why not offer to drive everyone around?

Grab ice cream.

If going out to eat is your thing, but dinner’s too expensive, head to the creamery for some dessert instead.

Find a group activity.

Inexpensive get-togethers at the mini-golf course or the bowling alley could mean hours of fun that are light on your wallet.

Find an art event.

Organized art exhibits or downtown “art walks” can be great places to enjoy a nightlife atmosphere and maybe even score some free drinks.

Go to the movies.

Sure, it’s still spending money, but even a $10 movie is still competitive with most other night-out ideas.

Do a late night picnic.

When I think of picnics, a late afternoon at the park or the beach comes to mind, but a friend suggested that picnics late at night are an awesome way to pass the time.

Hold a bonfire/camp-out.

Those of you blessed with a country setting and a sizable back yard will have no problem pitching some tents to hang out in or setting up some lawn chairs around a campfire.

Organize a potluck.

Have friends who love food? Pick a house where you can crash and have everyone bring an awesome dish they’ve made.

Hold a Wii tournament.

Interactive games have changed the idea of game night forever. Now you can get everyone involved and moving.

Set up an outdoor movie.

If you have a projector, laptop, speakers and a large white sheet, you can create a DIY theater in about 10 minutes.

Head to the pool or the beach.

Water can be more exciting at night, especially with a few drinks and good company.

Hit the arcade.

Yes, they still exist! Once a staple of teenage life, arcades are a fun way to kick back, get nostalgic, and enjoy some simple fun.

Go cruising.

When I lived in Miami, we could spend an entire Friday night just driving down South Beach without ever getting out of our car.

Are you excited yet? A lack of money doesn’t have to mean a lack of fun! The list above is only a start—as you can see, there are tons of free or low-cost things you can do tonight instead of sulking about not having money at home. (Well Heeled Blog: or, for something fun and productive, how about enlisting your significant other in some spring decor to make your home cleaner and more stylish?)

What’s your favorite? What options have you tried that aren’t on the list?

Hit Unsubscribe Button On Store Emails

As recently as a month ago, I was subscribed to the following store emails:

  • Gilt
  • Hautelook
  • RueLaLa
  • Gap
  • Banana Republic
  • J. Crew
  • Ideeli
  • Jetsetter
  • Voyage Prive
  • Talbots
  • Urban Outfitters
  • Vacationist
  • LivingSocial
  • LivingSocial Escapes
  • Groupon
  • Zozi
  • CozyCot
  • Sephora
  • Ann Taylor
  • Ann Taylor Loft

[Takes a BIG breath]. One night, in a frenzy of inspiration after I stumbled back to the Early Retirement Extreme blog, I decided to hit the unsubscribe button on all these store emails. Clear my inbox and clear out the temptations!

I have what I need, and if I wanted to, I can always go to the store or visit their websites and get something I like. It is a relief, though, to no longer have 10 emails offering temptations every single day. My urge to shop has decreased significantly – and if there is a must-have deal, I trust the petite style blogging community to keep me informed!

If you need help unsubscribing from store emails, read this list of how to talk yourself out of shopping, then go visit the ERE blog. I don’t agree with everything that Jacob says (he really is too extreme for me), but I always find that blog as a good dose of inspiration and motivation when I am feeling a little complacent with personal finance.