How to Find The Right Tango Teacher

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So.. you want to learn tango? icon wink How to Find The Right Tango Teacher

I’ve been dancing 2-5 hours a week since last September, and I’ve found a handful of great teachers and practicas that I like. Finding a great teacher is so important for one’s development and enjoyment of tango. If you are a beginner who is just starting to get into the dance, and you want to know how to find the right tango teacher, here are my suggestions of what to keep in mind:

1. Argentine tango is a different animal than ballroom tango. They are two separate dances – different music, different techniques, different steps (I am partial to Argentine tango, although I love watching both types of dance). If you want to learn Argentine tango, don’t go to a ballroom dance teacher! My personal preference is for teachers that teach Argentine tango exclusively.

2. Google – many big cities have websites with long lists of tango instructor and classes. (See New York, Los Angeles, Austin, San Francisco, Chicago, Washington, D.C.). This might be your first stop. Make a short list of classes that work with your schedule and check out at least 3-4 teachers when you first start.

3. Ask around. Once you begin going to classes and practicas, you can ask the other students there who they study with and which teachers they like – some teachers are wonderful at teach big, complicated, flashy dance moves, but other teachers are master technicians. If you are starting out, I’d recommend the technicians. The big flashy moves will come later if you have good fundamentals. I found my favorite teacher by asking a student about his experience.

4. Try it out. I’d suggest going to each teacher at least twice to get a feel of their teaching style, and just as importantly, the type of students they have in their class. It’s important to feel comfortable with the instructor and your fellow students, especially when you’ll be dancing in such close proximity.

5. Costs: It doesn’t have to cost much for you to get started in tango. Classes will cost $10-$20 each, and usually runs from 1 hour to 1.5 hours. Most classes are pay-as-you-go, some instructors offer discounts for buying classes in bulk. Tango shoes cost $150+, but you can hold off on getting the shoes until you are certain you want to stick to the dance. In the meantime, heels with stable straps for the ladies and leather shoes with slick soles for the men should suffice. Otherwise, all you need for your first class are breath mints / gum and a smile!

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It’s All A Matter of Perspective

I took my first Argentine tango class over 6 years ago. I loved it, but after several weeks the instructor left and I didn’t keep up with the dance amidst the hustle and bustle of college.

When I went to Buenos Aires a few years ago, I took more classes. But again, I didn’t stick with it after I got back to the States. I didn’t have a car at the time, and there weren’t any good classes near where I lived.

Now, after many starts and stops, I’m finally sinking my teeth heels into Argentine tango.

Just think… how good would I be now if I had stuck with Argentine tango six years ago? But then again.. if I stick with it now, how good would I be in six years? icon wink Its All A Matter of Perspective

And when it comes to money – sometimes the same perspective can be helpful: Don’t think how much money you would have now if you had started saving 5 or 10 years ago. Think about how much money you will have in 5 or 10 years if you start saving money now.

New Wish List

Picking up a new hobby has given me some new items to put on my wish list.

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Dance in new tango shoes tonight

Argentine tango shoes (~$200+) are on the top of my list. My current Latin heels have become loose in the front, causing my feet to slide forward, which in turn results in looseness in the heel cup.  Sooner or later (preferably sooner, for the sake of my feet), I’ll have to switch over to tango shoes with a firmer across-the-toes strap and better arch support. Edit: after suffering some foot pain after dancing, I went to a doctor to make sure I’m taking care of my feet. The doctor’s verdict: I need harder (more supportive) soles and a wider shoe. Now I am officially on the hunt for a pair of shoes that won’t make my feet hurt.

I actually did go to a specialty dance store in search of my very first pair of Argentine tango heels, but unfortunately (fortunately?) couldn’t find a style that I liked in my size. But in the words of the Governator… I’ll be back.

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This weekend I went to a milonga (a tango dance party) and had a nice time, i.e., guys asked me to dance. and I did! But I found that I enjoyed classes and practicas much more. Fashion-wise, some of those ladies (and gentlemen) were really dressed up! Imagine women in slinky cocktail dresses and high heels, and men in full suit and tie – I do love the atmosphere of the milongas.

I’m still a beginner, so most of the time, I will mess up a step or improperly follow a lead, and I suppose I just found it frustrating that when I danced, I wouldn’t have the opportunity ask the instructor what I did wrong, and how to correct it so that next time I can get a little closer to doing it the right way.

Anyone remember the movie Uptown Girls? Where a young Dakota Fanning character insisted that FUNdamentals are FUN? Well, I believe I am in that stage where I would rather work on my fundamentals and technical foundations – every time I dance outside the presence of an instructor I am wary of developing bad habits that will take hours to correct later.

On that note, private tango classes (~$80+) are also on my wish list.

So, I think I will limit my milonga attendance to once every month or two month and just dance more frequently at classes and practicas for now. On the bright side, fewer milongas means I’ll save $10 to $20 entrance fees.

You Know You Are Addicted To Argentine Tango When…

1. You see a dress you like in the window display, and wonder, ”can I dance in this?”

2. Fresh & Easy frozen foods aisle becomes not just a place to buy a bag of stir-fry for $3.99, but also an area to practice the tango walk.

3. You cannot suppress the big grin on your face that grows wider and wider with every turn in a practica.

4. The shoes you dream about have switched from Louboutins (shoes almost every women want) to Comme il Fauts (shoes tango-addicted women want). At least Comme il Fauts are much cheaper…

5. Tango lessons has replaced nice dining experiences as your motivational currency.

6. You harass try to persuade all your friends to go to tango classes with you.

7. It’s worth it to drive 45 minutes in gridlock traffic to get to your favorite instructor.

8. You look at your apartment’s hardwood floors and think (even for a moment)… can I rearrange the furniture so I have room to practice?

9. You are secretly glad that you can’t find classes you like on Wednesday nights because that has become the only night you can hang out with friends. Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday are all taken by tango classes.

10. You dance for 3 hours straight… and still want more. Much more.

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My New Motivational Currency

One of my good friends asked me if I was interested in a dinner special at a very nice restaurant. The total would probably come out to around ~$60 with tax and tip included.

Normally, I am a big proponent of spending money for delicious food and good dining experiences, but my mind immediately calculated… $60. That’s a lot of money. In fact, that’s 4 to 5 tango classes! So I demurred to my friend. It’s not that $60 is unaffordable, per se, but that I think overall I get more joy from 5 nights of tango than I do from one (admittedly, very nice) night of dining.

Yes, it is true. My motivational currency has now switched from dining out to tango lessons.

Who AM I?

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Paying On Your Honor

Last week I attended a dance class where students put money into (and took change out of) a glass jar at the front table. The table was unattended, so essentially the payment mechanism operated on an honor system. (Edit for clarification: the payment was a set amount – not a suggested donation).

On the one hand, it’s nice to see such a sense of trust and community among the people, and I highly doubt that anyone will take advantage of the situation. On the other hand, even assuming that no one will cheat, I still felt uncomfortable that that money is just out there unguarded. With no one to do proper accounting!

I don’t quite know why I feel that way. Money left out in the open seems almost too strange to me. Or have I become too jaded? Has anyone else encountered a similar situation (the honor system payment)? How did you feel?

Tango a Go Go – It’s Exercise, It Must Be Worth It

I danced for almost 3 hours straight on Friday night – it was so fun. I was also exhausted. Who knew that a dance can be such a full body workout?

Because of exercise benefits, I’ve decided that I can devote more monetary resources to this addiction endeavor. So I’ve decided to buy 15 classes for $185. Individual classes would cost $15 each, or $225 total for 15 classes. In truth, then, I am saving $40 by buying in bulk, right?  That’s not including the cost of practicas (practice sessions ~$5 to $10) or milongas (dance parties ~$10 to $15) that I might go to. But I’ll try to only select one or two occasions a month, to keep down the costs.

The 15 classes should last me a month and provide around 6 hours of dancing a week. I find running a little boring (although I really do want to complete a 5K – baby steps), I don’t play any sports, and I don’t belong to a gym. So those 6 hours of tango will be the only exercise I get for the week, at least for the near future.

Therefore, I’m going to consider the money an investment in my health (and happiness). Isn’t it amazing how much easier it is to spend money when you’ve decided it’s something that’s “good for you”? icon wink Tango a Go Go   Its Exercise, It Must Be Worth It

Putting Your Passion on a Budget

When there’s a mismatch between what you love to do (passion) and what you can prudently do (budget), it’s difficult to limit your passion to your budget.

Since I have developed a slight case of Argentine tango fever, I’ve been taking 2-3 classes per week. The classes cost an average of $15, which means that if I go to class twice a week, I’d be out $120 a month. Ideally, however, I’d be attending class 3 times a week, or spending almost $200 a month.

That’s just one type of dance. Sometimes I need a break from the intensity of tango by jumping in the fun and sassy salsa, which also costs $15 per class. So add on one session of salsa to three Argentine tango classes a week, and suddenly, my “ideal” monthly dance budget has ballooned to ~$250 a month.

To be honest, I don’t particularly crave top brand names or fancy cars or cool new tech gadgets (okay, maybe except for the iPhone). My day-to-day guilty pleasures are food and books, which I’ve always found that I didn’t have to be too disciplined when it comes to spending money, because delicious food can be found for cheap (dim sum, tacos, etc. even nice restaurants have deals once in a while), and books are free at the library, or available for under $5 at used book sales or on Amazon.

But dance is completely different. It’s an activity that requires a consistent schedule. It’s difficult to not do something (or not to do as often as you’d like) you love because of budgetary restraints. Every week I can feel myself getting better – I’m still in the stage where every slight improvement yields a big marginal benefit, because I’m starting off so badly! The more classes I go to, the quicker my process. If I miss a class, I feel the back-sliding. And I want to get better because as fun as tango or salsa is right now, it will be so much more fun when I’m a better dancer.

In many ways, I suppose I’m fortunate. I could have fallen in love with skiing, or mountain climbing, or sailing, or horseback riding – hobbies which all cost far more than tango or salsa. So, it’s okay if I indulge in a few more classes a week, right? icon wink Putting Your Passion on a Budget

Do you have an expensive hobby / passion? And how do you limit your hobby expenses?

Why Argentine Tango

When people ask me why I like Argentine tango, usually I just say, “it’s fun”. But that one adjective doesn’t do the dance justice – in fact, I don’t think any one word can.

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The Saturday I went to dance the Argentine tango at Central Park, I wasn’t feeling so great. Some things have been running in my head, and try as I might, I couldn’t let them go.

I circled Central Park for 20 minutes before I finally found the Shakespeare Statue. As I sat down on a bench, I felt a little out of place – I could tell most of the people already there were regulars. But then the music started, I put on my strappy heels, and gentlemen came up to me to invite me onto the pavement.

And I danced.

Even though I stumbled over steps and missed certain leads, for a few moments here and there I felt as if I was walking on air, my feet crossing and gilding so swiftly and smoothly that I can scarcely believe that I’m the one dancing. It felt like second nature, as if I was meant to execute those very steps at that very moment.

As the time went on, my arms and legs ached (dancing is a full-body workout!). Still, tiredness didn’t diminish the wonder of the tango, in a beautiful Fall evening, in Central Park. For that hour I completely forgot about my worries, and all I concentrated on was the dance.

The event was free (donations are encouraged), the experience was priceless.

I loved so many things about my time in New York City – the wonderful restaurants, seeing my friends, the visit to Columbia, meetings about new and exciting projects, the convenience of the subway system. But that hour, beneath a lush green canopy, under the Bard’s silent gaze, dancing to the strains of old-time Buenos Aires… that hour was for just me.

That’s why, Argentine tango.

Shall We Dance?

Saturday at dusk. Under the Shakespeare statue. I did this for more than an hour straight.

Tango in Central Park was truly an amazing experience.

The Price of Addiction To Argentine Tango

It’s happened. I fell for the sultry dance, hard. (I even made its own category!)

I leave class with a big smile on my face. I read Argentine tango forums and blogs. I fall asleep thinking of boleos and molinetes. I’m not sure how my wallet feels about the possible financial impact, though.

At $12 to $15 a class, the costs quickly add up. Eventually I’ll need to get proper tango shoes which can exceed $200. My eyes are on Comme il Faut – leave it to me to pick a hobby where even the shoes are gorgeous! Then if I want to practice dancing in a social setting, I should attend practicas (after-class practices) and milongas (dance parties), which can range $10 to $15 in cover charge.

Some hard-core tango students get private lessons (~$80+ per hour) and attend festivals and special workshops all across the country, paying $40-$100 per session with traveling instructors (in addition to the price of airfare, lodging, etc.) If I get really crazy, I can actually travel to Buenos Aires, take classes with maestros and attend milongas.

In an episode of House Hunters International, a Californian couple bought a $200,000 pied-a-terre in Buenos Aires just so they can focus on tango! The lady insisted on an apartment with enough open space that she can turn into a salon for her tango parties. Now that’s dedication.

If I’m not careful, I can easily see myself spending thousands a year on this addiction hobby (4 classes / practicas a week x $15 per class = $60 per week x 40 weeks per year = $2,400 per year) just on classes alone.

But oh, the embrace, the music, the gilding steps. Though I am very budget-conscious (especially right now), there’s something about Argentine tango that makes me want to throw my budget to the wind and just dance to my heart’s content.

Unemployed or In-Between Jobs? 4 Ways to Keep Moving and Grooving

As I enter my 3rd week of “in-between opportunities,” here’s what I’ve realized: the freedom to construct your own schedule means the responsibility to construct your own schedule.

Without a job to keep me at my desk for 10+ hours a day, it’s easy while away a whole day watching YouTube and chatting with friends (not that I have done it or anything…). But time is precious, and I don’t want this time to pass by without having anything to show for it.

If you are a young adult who is in-between jobs right now, like I am, there are blessings to be found! You probably don’t have any big obligations like a mortgage or college tuition for kids. You’re geographically flexible. You now have the opportunity to do amazing things that will be more difficult to do later on in life:

1. Freelance Projects / Internships: I’ve been working on a couple of freelance projects (hopefully I can share more information soon). Through these projects, I will develop another set of skills, expand my network, bring in a little bit of income, and set visible goals to work towards (not having any obligations gets boring after a while). The people I’ve been in contact with are really smart and seem good to work with, and I’m excited to be partnering with them. And it’s interesting work.

I am a big proponent of freelance projects and internships. Everything that you do during this time to further develop your abilities and contacts can only help you later on. A friend of mine took an internship at a online media company and did so well that they offered him a full-time job. So now he has a new career path (that he enjoys much more than his old one) and a repertoire of new skills, thanks to that internship.

2. Hobbies / Personal Goals: Have you ever said, I wish I had the time to do XYZ? This can be anything that you’ve wanted to do – run a marathon, volunteer on a political campaign, cook a 6-course meal, write a book – now’s the time to do it, with no more excuses.

My biggest hobby right now is Argentine Tango (and salsa, though salsa is a flirtation while tango has my heart). I’ve been dancing up a storm – taking 2-3 classes a week. I can tell that my frame is stronger, my following ability is more responsive, my posture more correct. I’m still light-years away from becoming a tanguera, but getting there is half the fun, no?

3. Languages: The ability to speak and read a second (or third, or fourth) language is an enriching skill both professionally and personally.Why not take this opportunity to brush up on your foreign language skills or start learning a new language? If you don’t have money to hire a private tutor, you can enroll in community college classes or arrange a language exchange (see Craigslist).

During the next few months, I plan on concentrating on business Chinese Mandarin to prepare myself for the possibility of pursuing opportunities in China in the future. I already have a background in the language, so that helps. But I want to go from “Dinner was really nice. My favorite dish was the Kung Pao Chicken.” (conversational) to “My experience in business analysis and strategic review will help your company in its expansion efforts.” (professional).

4. Travel: Where do you want to go? What’s stopping you? I know so many people who’ve traveled extensively during their time off. This is when you can truly take advantage of mid-week airfare / hotel specials or be able to take off months to go travel the world. I have a friend who is doing a self-constructed Scuba World Tour.  You can bet that will be much more memorable than spending 6 months sleeping in and staying up late.

Where do I want to go? Too many places to count! Austin, D.C., New York, China, Argentina, Galapagos, etc. etc. I’ll try to knock several of those off my list.

The worst thing to do is to sit around and do nothing. So go do something already. icon wink Unemployed or In Between Jobs? 4 Ways to Keep Moving and Grooving If you’re in-between jobs and doing something cool, share in the comments!

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