Are You Financially Insecure?

Are you just one job loss, one paycut, and one illness away from catastrophe? Sometimes it seems no matter how much money someone may be able to save or skills they cultivate, it’s a little too easy to fall down the economic ladder. More than 20% of Americans are “economically insecure,” according to the Economic Security Index created by a professor at Yale. The three major criteria for economic insecurity are (1) major income loss (over 25%), (2) out-of-pocket medical expenses, and (3) lack of savings.

Economic insecurity is at a high point, growing from around 17% in 2000 to over 20% in 2008, 2009, and 2010 (source: Economic Security Index).

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Unfortunately, twenty- and thirty-somethings are doing the worst compared with all other age groups. The article goes on to say,

Young adults, age 18 to 34, proved to be the most insecure group during the recession, with a rate of nearly 25%. The next most vulnerable folks were those age 45 to 64, with a rate of just under 20%.

How do I guard against financial insecurity? Well, I try to perform well at work, improve my skills, network, network, network, and remain geographically flexible for new opportunities.  I maintain a healthcare policy, or at the very least catastrophic health insurance. And I save, save, save, for an emergency fund.

Even though I am not economically insecure right now, I’ve been through a layoff and I get what it feels like to lose most of my income and have to regroup and reinvent myself. I am glad I am in a better place now – making a decent income, healthy, planning for the future with a good dose of optimism.

But those numbers are still disheartening.

Are you financially insecure right now? How are you shoring up your financial security?

 

Real Simple’s Money Guidelines

A recent issue of Real Simple magazine has an article titled 6 numbers for financial success. This is why Real Simple is one of my favorite magazines – it has fashion, organization, makeup, features, but sweetens with a dose of personal finance. Generally, I think these are good, basic guidelines.

28%: the share of your pretax monthly income that should go toward housing costs

Yes. Our housing cost (rent + utilities + internet) takes up 14%-15% of our pretax income. Rent’s an area that we are doing very well in… but I’m glad Real Simple doesn’t have a guideline for eating out. Because I’m sure we will exceed that!

120 – your age: the maximum percentage of your retirement savings that should be in stocks or stock mutual funds

No. I am 26, so according to the formula I should have more than 90% of my portfolio in stocks. I am not that risk-tolerant! Working has made me realize how much it hurts to watch my hard-earned retirement funds dwindle, so I have approximately 70% of my retirement funds in stocks and 30% in bonds.

5%: the maximum percentage of your take-home pay that you should owe to credit card companies

Yes. Neither CB nor I have credit card debt (unless you count the balance that we pay off each month). Instead, I use credit cards to get rewards such as gift cards or mileage bonuses. icon smile Real Simples Money Guidelines

10%: the minimum amount of your pretax income to save for retirement

Yes. Ever since college graduation I have saved 20%-35% of my gross income in retirement funds. If we include the 10% employer’s contribution that CB receives, we are contributing 27% or 28% of our combined income into retirement funds.

1: the number of times a year you should review your retirement portfolio

Yes and No. I look at my portfolio several times a month, but I don’t really make any changes to it other than add more money for Roth IRA or 401K.

10 x your gross income: the minimum amount of life insurance you should buy

No. I have a small life insurance through work. CB has something similar. Neither of us has purchased additional life insurance. After we get married, we probably will add a term life insurance so that if one of us dies, the other one will at least have some money come of it! (OK, that didn’t come out right, but imagine the pain of losing a spouse. It would be nice to have some money so that one can take time off work or school, handle funeral costs, travel to be with family, etc., if an unexpected tragedy occurs).

As you can see, I qualify for most of these guidelines, but I missed a few that I don’t think applies in my situation. How did you do?

Savers (This One Included!) Frustrated By Low Interest Rates

Remember the good ol’ days of 2006 and 2007, when interest rates climbed to 5% and banks were falling over one another to provide the highest rates to savers? With every little effort, my cash were earning 4%+ in saving accounts, and I had a few CDs that earned 5%.

With interest rates barely at 1% now, today’s savers are facing a very different reality. According to the Los Angeles Times:

The Federal Reserve has dropped interest rates to historically low levels in hopes of resuscitating the ailing economy. That’s been a boon for borrowers taking out auto or home loans, and a salve for banks still trying to recover from the global financial crisis three years ago.

But for savers, the microscopic yields are the equivalent of a migraine. They’re especially hard on the elderly, many of whom rely on steady interest income to pay routine living expenses.

And the lack of interest income will ultimately take its toll on the sputtering economy: Americans will hold back spending because they aren’t making as much money off their low-rate accounts. Consumer spending accounts for about 70% of the U.S. economy.

So what’s a frustrated saver to do? The same LA Times article mentioned some folks who have cashed out to purchase gold, or to make other alternative investments in search of a higher yield. In my case, the answer is “what can I do?”

It’s too risky to put my short-term savings anywhere but money market funds and savings accounts. At this point, my first priority is capital preservation and liquidity. My non-retirement savings are in a prime money market fund, while the rest are with a big bank’s saving account, earning a paltry 0.95%. Even online banks’ rates aren’t much better. I believe ING is currently offering 1% on their Orange Saving Accounts.

Compared to the folks in retirement who depend on their saving accounts for living expenses, I’m lucky. A decrease from 5% to 1% interest rate didn’t affect my standard of living. It is still frustrating that my cash is losing value with every passing moment – after all, the inflation rate is almost 4% right now. But I have to hold on to the cash. So I suppose all I can do is to sit tight.

Savers, are you doing anything about the low interest rates? Has it affected your spending or retirement plans?

Graduates: Save for Retirement

Is there any topic as scintillating as that of retirement? Especially to newly minted college graduates?

I think not! icon wink Graduates: Save for Retirement Retirement seems far off, but without a plan it comes much faster and harder than one expects. It’s not too difficult to just get started… check out my new post at the LendingTree blog:

5 Tips for Recent College Grads to Plan for Retirement

After I graduated from college, I used all these tips to really get started on saving in my Roth IRA and 401K. The best thing is that if you are consistent with it, the dollars add up more quickly than you realize. I just peeked at my 401K statement – I’m 90% of the way there to my $16,500 goal.

Thanks to Sarah at Paranoid Asteroid, Jeff at Sustainable Personal Finance, and Kim at Kim’s Kitchen Sink for chiming in with their tips!

P.S. LendingTree is running a Home CFO contest on Facebook. There’s a BIG prize every month for the lucky winner named the Home CFO: LendingTree will pay for one month of your mortgage or rent. If you win, there’s $1,000+ extra for retirement savings right there.

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Is Roth IRA Bad for America’s Fiscal Future?

Most personal finance bloggers (this one included) love the Roth IRA. Contribute to a plan with after-tax money, then watch your funds grow unencumbered by taxes. And, when you are ready to withdraw, you don’t have to pay taxes either. But what’s good for the individual might not be good for the collective whole. LA Times columnist Gerald Scorse has damning words for Roth IRA, calling it a “fiscal Frankenstein.” I never thought about it this way, but might my favorite retirement vehicle be bad for America’s fiscal health?

There’s no tax break on contributions. But from that point on, taxes simply vanish. As long as the account is at least 5 years old, there is no tax on any withdrawals made after age 59 1/2. There’s no requirement that you make a minimum withdrawal — after age 70 1/2, or ever.

All of which makes Roths a perfect “fiscal Frankenstein.” In return for little more than ordinary upfront taxes, Congress waived untold billions in future Treasury receipts. Then, too, Roths could be a drag on the U.S. economy. Since no withdrawals are required, assets can lie idle indefinitely.

For Roth holders, the accounts become a permanent, federally sanctioned tax shelter. For America, they’re a bit like toxic instruments on the nation’s books.

Scorse acknowledges that the Roth is a good deal for individuals, but that’s not enough. He concludes:

Whatever the answer for individuals, there’s little doubt that Roths are wrong for America. They’re Frankensteins, fated to wreak havoc. It’s time to retire Roth IRAs.

What do you think? Even though I think this retirement vehicle rocks, are Roth IRAs toxic for our nation’s future fiscal health?

Living Well on Less Than $40K a Year: Lessons for Everyone

Can a family of four live well on less an income of less than $40,000 a year? Donna Freedman of MSN Money profiles two families who say “yes.”

  • Tracy and Danny Kofke, an at-home mom and a special-ed teacher, live near Atlanta with their daughters, ages 3 and 6. Adjusted gross income: just over $36,000.
  • Amy Halloran and Jack Magai, a freelance writer and an arborist/choreographer, live near Albany, N.Y., with sons ages 7 and 12. Adjusted gross income: about $30,000.

A lot of people live on less than that. In fact, both families are still well above the current federal poverty guideline of $22,350 per year for a four-member family. I chose them because they live in or near large cities, rather than in the deep (and cheap) countryside.

If you can own a home and raise kids in metro Atlanta on $36,000 a year, as the Kofkes do, you obviously have something to teach. And even though Halloran and Magai lucked out with cheap housing, their annual income is slightly less than the federal minimum wage for two people.

It’s nice to see stories of how this IS possible and how the two families made choices that work with their priorities. I make more than $40K a year but a whole lot less than some of the families usually featured in these money series. What’s great is that there is always something I can learn or some inspiration I can draw from all these stories, no matter how much more or how much less I earn than those profiled.

In Donna’s article, the two families offered five strategies for how to stretch an extra dollar, which can be implemented by people of all incomes to one degree or another.

Strategy 1: Know where every dollar is and where you want it to go.

Knowing where every dollar goes is important if you are either 1. on a limited income or 2. have big saving or debt pay-off plans. I cruised along without a budget for a while, and then I realized I needed to make some changes so I at least have an idea of where my money went.

Strategy 2: Start with cheaper housing.

One of the reasons why I can max out my retirement accounts this year is because I have very cheap housing. In fact, my rent is less than 15% of my gross income (most experts recommend your housing costs stay under 30%). There are a lot of ways to lower your housing costs, including sharing a space with roommates, buying multi-unit housing and renting out rooms, live in the not-so-trendy part of town, live in an older building, live in a building with few amenities, etc.

Strategy 3: Get creative about meeting needs.

I’m not so sure if I am “creative” about meeting needs. In fact, I’d say this is one of the areas where I can definitely improve on – starting with cooking at home more often. I do, however, get really cheap haircuts at a local beauty school.

Strategy 4: Get even more creative about meeting wants.

My level of “creativity” tops out at finding a really inexpensive Thai massage place ($40 an hour!), using restaurant.com coupons for eating out, and cashing in my credit card points for Sephora and Banana Republic gift cards. Oh, I also try to always buy quality clothes / shoes on sale or at off-price retailers such as TJ Maxx or Loehmann’s. Do those methods count?

Strategy 5: Stay true to your goals.

This is great advice, no matter if you make $40K or $400K. My goals are a sound financial retirement, future home ownership, a successful career, and meaningful personal relationships. One could argue that good money management skills play into all four. icon smile Living Well on Less Than $40K a Year: Lessons for Everyone

How are you doing on these 5 strategies?

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Thanks to Money Beagle for hosting the Carnival of Personal Finance Opening Day Edition and for featuring my post Bag Lady Syndrome: Do You Have It?

See Yourself with Wrinkles and White Hair, Save More for Retirement

One reason why people – especially people in their twenties and thirties – don’t save for retirement is because our future selves are so distant. But if what you can come face to face with your Future Self? What if, you will be able to see your own face, digitally aged to 68 or 70, with wrinkles, creases, and white hair? Well, you just might be encouraged to stash more cash for retirement, so says the Wall Street Journal article on behavioral economics.

Why is it so difficult for people to set aside money for the long-term future? Low earnings and high temptations are obvious reasons. But perhaps the most basic cause is a fundamental human frailty: We view our future selves as strangers.

Estimating with any precision what you will want 30 or 40 years from now is almost impossible. You don’t know your future desires, because you don’t know your future self. What will you want or need when you are 65 or 70 or 80 or older? Who knows?

Viewed this way, it isn’t surprising that the young typically don’t want to save for their retirement, since that stage of life feels as if it will be lived by someone else. And when you save money today on behalf of your remote future self, you deprive your immediate present self of cash you could use right now.

Of course, if you spend tomorrow’s savings today, you won’t have cash when you need it in the future—but that day of reckoning is decades off. That is true for those of all ages, but the lost opportunity is greatest for young people, because money set aside at an early age has more years to grow.

Yet it is highly unusual for people to think more vividly about their future selves than about their present selves, say psychologists.

Imagine yourself as “grandma” or “grandpa”

One way I reach a connection with my Future Self is to imagine the 70-year-old me as a close loved one, a grandparent or a doted aunt, perhaps. Her welfare and comfort rests on my shoulders. Grandma’s source of income comes from Social Security and whatever I have put aside for her. Grandma can’t work, because she is old. Her health might not be up to snuff. Employers might be more reluctant to hire older workers. If I put nothing away now, grandma gets nothing extra in her retirement.

She will have to subsist on ramen and rely on library books for entertainment when she might have loved to eat sushi and visit Latin America. Even worse, what if grandma gets sick? If I don’t have funds for her, she will only have first-generation drugs with heavy side effects. She will not be able to pay for a in-home aid or a private room at the hospital. Do I want grandma to be in such sad straits? Of course not!

Grandma’s friends might plan a big trip cruise to the Mediterranean but she can’t go because she doesn’t have the money. On the cold days, she might not have enough money for heat. Or she will have to choose between heat and food, or food and medicine. Or she lies awake at night worrying about her future. How will she live? Will her house be foreclosed on?

That doesn’t sound like a fun retirement for grandma, does it?

Now we don’t not know what we will be like, exactly, when we are old. But looking at my grandparents, I know what matters: a nest egg that will provide for them in their old age and prevent them from being financial burdens to their children, family who loves and takes care of them, trips and lunches with friends, and a dignified death when the time comes.

ALL of the above is made easier with sound financial resources.

I think it’s a great idea that scientists are figuring out ways for people to save. But I don’t understand how people don’t think they will be old. Everyone grows old – or dies young. But I don’t need a sophisticated facial progression software to encourage me to save. I just imagine the plight of sad, old, grandma, who is confined to a life of bare subsistence because I didn’t make her a priority.

Does the “grandma” (or “grandpa”) trick work for you? Would you be more likely to save if you saw a digitally aged photo of yourself?

5 Beauty Ideas That Save Time, Money, and Sanity?

The March 2011 issue of Real Simple featured “Five beauty treatments that will change your life,” which promises to save you time, money, and sanity.

1. Keratin Treatment ($150 plus): The keratin treatment promises to turn frizz into docile tresses by sealing keratin, a conditioning protein, into your hair. A common name is the Brazilian Blowout.

2. Lash Extensions ($150 plus): an aesthetician will apply individual hair to your lash line, for a fuller, more natural look. The results last 4-6 weeks.

3. Gel Manicure ($40 plus): Nail polish applied by a nail specialist and “cured” under an UV light – this manicure is supposed to last for 2+ weeks without chipping.

4. Laser Hair Removal ($150+ per session, most people need 5+ sessions): A technician aims the hair-zapping laser at your skin. Hair will grow thinner and smaller after treatment. Some people have permanent hair removal, others might need a touch-up.

5. Hair Extensions ($100 plus): Hair extensions, either applied at salons or at home, can give you the appearance of longer / fuller hair. The results last up to four months. You will have to use special care when washing and styling your hair.

Have anyone tried these treatments before? While I agree that they can certainly save time and sanity, I don’t see how they will save anyone money. All these treatments are quite expensive and require repeated applications for continued results. Not that I am against splurging – I get a facial every 2 months at $90 a pop. In fact, I am a little surprised that skincare is not one of the items mentioned on the list.

It’s funny that most of these ideas center around our relationship with our hair (too much, not enough, too frizzy, too flat, too dull, too oily, etc.). I used to spend $250 on thermal straightening. Since I’ve started embracing my natural hair, I find that my budget is much fuller!

We All Say We Don’t Want a McMansion, But What’s The SMALLEST You Will Go?

During the heydays of the real estate bubbles, McMansions popped up everywhere. The mantra seemed to be, “build (them big), and they will come.” Then after the bubble popped, McMansions became the subject of public and private ire. Fine, we all say that we don’t want McMansions. But what’s the smallest you will go? And keep in mind, one person’s McMansion is another person’s cottage.

Tiny Houses: Just how small is small?

Tammy Strobel, a minimalist blogger at Rowdy Kittens, is building a small house. And by small, I mean, really small) Her 150-sq. ft. house-on-wheels will cost an estimated $35,000. The low-cost comes from a small structure – less than 1/10 the size of an average American home, but mostly I assume it comes from the lack of land. If you are interested in building or commissioning a home like this, check out these great resources: Tumbleweed Tiny Houses, Tiny House Blog, Tiny House Design, and Design Boom’s feature on small houses.

While I’ve always had fairly conventional real estate aspirations, it’s cool to see people pursuing a different path. I don’t think the tiny house movement is for me: I don’t need or want a McMansion, but my idea of small is 700 sq. ft., not 150. Our apartment right now is a very spacious 1-bedroom, and sometimes I feel like I can do with 2/3 of the size – and I will GLADLY do so for 2/3 of the rent! icon wink We All Say We Dont Want a McMansion, But Whats The SMALLEST You Will Go? My ideal home would be probably a 3 bedroom, 2-bathroom home in a nicely-appointed 1,000 sq. ft. Craftsman bungalow or Spanish-style home. Big enough to not feel cramped, small enough to be affordable (I hope). The second bedroom can be a library – aka my dream room. If we have a kid, I’d like the third bedroom. I’d also like a one-story home, which will add to the square footage.

How small would you go? Would you buy a tiny house on wheels?

CNN Money Is Looking for Super Savers / Real Estate Investors

One of my favorite features from CNN Money is their Super Savers / Millionaires in the Making series. CNN is taking that series to paper: the publisher is recruiting for people to feature in their MONEY magazine. [I've written about CNN's Extreme Savers before, and have always found them to be a good source of inspiration].

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According to CNN:

MONEY magazine is seeking to interview real estate investors and super savers.

Specifically, we’re looking for people in their 30s or 40s (couples or singles) who are building wealth in either of two ways: (1) limiting their spending and making a habit of saving at least 15% of their household income; or (2) investing in real estate, with a few years of experience as a landlord or in rehabbing properties for resale. In both cases, we’d like to get advice on wealth-building from people who have at least $200,000 in assets (investments, retirement accounts and/or real estate), not including the equity in their primary residence.

Participants and their families would be photographed for the article; subjects would also have to be willing to have the dollar amounts of their household income and assets published in the magazine.

If you’re interested, please send an email to gmannes@moneymail.com containing your name(s), age(s), a phone number where you can be reached, and a brief description of your situation, including household income and assets. A MONEY editor will follow up with you.

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For me, talking about personal finance is so much easier when you are anonymous, but if you fit the criteria and want to share your story, here’s your chance!

Is anyone throwing their hat in the ring?

Yours, Mine, Ours: Money in Marriage

Jessica Grose of Slate just published a great 5-part series on How Couples Manage Their Money. Jessica, a newlywed who has been with her husband for 4 years previous to tying the knot, is wondering if, how, and when she and her husband should merge finances.

She interviewed couples from across the country, read up on the historical and sociological sources, and tried to figure out a way that’s right for her personal situation.

Part 1: Our Newlywed Money Dilemma
Part 2: Common Potters (“combine everything”)
Part 3: Sometimes Sharers (“a combination of joint and individual accounts”)
Part 4: Independent Operators (“strict financial separation”)
Part 5: What We Decided

Hopefully I am not spoiling it for anyone when I reveal that Jessica and Mike (her husband) ultimately decided to go the Sometimes Sharer route:

For the month of January, Mike and I have been keeping track of our individual spending. He’s been tallying his expenses on an Excel sheet. I have an account at the personal-finance Web site Mint.com. We’ll have a reckoning about what constitutes a joint expense and come up with a figure that should cover these expenses. Then we’ll each contribute 50 percent of that figure. For now, we will put the remainder of our salaries into our existing individual accounts and keep our savings separate. I’ll publish a follow-up next month with all the nitty-gritty.

There are benefits and deficiencies to each of the three major ways of handling money within a marriage (alas, I haven’t seen a perfect system yet), but maybe I can cobble together the perfect system for us.

Right now CB and I are Independent Operators, which I believe is the right course of action for the vast majority of unmarried couples. I don’t foresee us continuing as Independent Operators after we marry. After we make it legal, this is how I might approach the question of money in marriage: prenuptial agreement before the marriage, a common pot after. This, I think, captures the best of both worlds: protecting yourself and each other in a fair and rational manner for just-in-case, but committing to joint financial goals while you are in the marriage -which hopefully lasts forever, of course.

I like the idea of joint goals for investments and big-ticket items, and I don’t want to be a couple that squabble over who bought the milk last week vs. this week. The biggest benefit of having a common pot, I think, is the retirement factor. Am I really going to feel secure when I’m 60 if I have $3 million stashed but CB’s pot is only $300K (or vice versa)? Doesn’t that mean, for all intents and purposes, that we have a joint retirement kitty of $3.3 million? After all, I want us to jet around the world together, and not have one partner wait at home while the other traverse the Italian Riviera alone.

Just curious, has anyone gone the prenup + common potter approach?

2011 Payroll Tax Deduction = You’re Getting a Raise

The economy is supposed to pick up this year (wait, isn’t that what they said about 2010?) One thing is for certain, even if you don’t get a raise in 2011, you will get a raise. How? The federal government has decided to cut our 2011 payroll tax deduction and try to get us to spend just a little bit more.

Payroll tax is normally set at 12.4%, split at 6.2% between employer & employee. But for one year only, it will drop down to 10.4%, with the 2% deduction going to the employee. If you have self-employment income, you will also benefit from the 2% drop on your “employee” side income.

Sounds pretty great, right? 2% isn’t much a fortune- it works out to about an extra $83 a month for someone making $50,000 and $125 a month for someone making $75,000. But those little bit extras add up.

Bottom line: more money? I’ll take it! Now, the trick is to use this small windfall wisely and not to let it fritter away. For more, please take a look at my BlogHer article:

2011 Payroll Tax Deduction is a Small Windfall

When Homelessness is Imminent

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Most personal finance writing centers around increasing your income or decreasing your expenses. Most assumes that you have a place to live, a permanent address, a mode of transportation, a way to communicate.

But what do you do when homelessness is knocking on your door?

When I read this BlogHer article, How to Prepare for Homeless, what struck me was the matter-of-fact tone that the author, Dorid, adopted to such a difficult topic. It could well be How to Save Money on Food, or How to Look for a New Job, or How to Write a Budget. Except it’s not.

The 15 tips that Dorid listed most dealt with practical considerations (for example, make sure you have a cell phone to keep your means of communication), but she also has words of encouragement for others in the same situation:

15. Remember to pack your self esteem. Being homeless can happen to anyone, especially in this economy. And yes, it’s going to be crushing and painful and stressful and ugly. But if you go into it feeling defeated than you’re beaten, and it’ll be harder to get back up. Remember, you do NOT deserve this, and you’re worth better. Keeping that in mind will help you get through this, and will be invaluable when it comes to negotiating homeless services or acquiring a new home.

Homeless, to put it mildly, is frightening. And the people who are able to stay off the streets (get themselves into a shelter, stay with relatives, stay in a car, etc.) are those with more education, more resources, and better health than the folks who sleep by the side of an alley. Even so, I don’t know how people survive losing a place of their own, a place of security and comfort.

I hope that if I ever fall to homelessness, I can face it with courage and dignity that Dorid seems to. But more than that, I hope I never have to find out how I would act that situation.

Your Favorite Discontinued Brands & Products

Discontinued 300x152 Your Favorite Discontinued Brands & ProductsYou find the perfect lip gloss, brownie mix, or Moscato, then the cruel hands of market forces or corporate decisions snatch them away from you. A recent Smart Money article “Chasing Lost Brands” talked about the poor predicament of those who long for discontinued brands such as Flex shampoo and Carnation Breakfast Bars. Shakespeare said that it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all, but some of these lost brand devotees may not agree!

The discontinued brands I still think about:

  • Trader Joe’s Flore de Moscato: I first had this wine back in the summer of 2009, and I loved it. When I went back a week later, there was no bottle in sight. In fact, the entire shipment has sold out and there were no plans for more. A reader, Will, posted in a comment that he had 2 extra cases of Flore, and THREE people replied to that comment asking him if he had some left to sell. It sounds silly but it makes me sad that I will never taste that particular blend of Orange Muscat and Muscat Canneli again.
  • Jack & Jill: So, this isn’t technically a product, but it is a brand! I don’t know if anyone remembers it, but Jack & Jill was WB series running from 1999 to 2000. It starred Amanda Peet as Jack (short for Jacqueline) and David Sergei as Jill (for David Jillefsky). The first season ended on a cliffhanger, then it got canceled! I hated the lack of resolution and if it came back on, I’d be a loyal viewer.
  • Almay Skin Stays Clean foundation: Probably one of the best drug-store foundations that I have tried. It was discontinued a few years ago and while I haven’t gone through any extreme steps of trying to relocate them, I do wish they were still in production.

So share some of your brand nostalgia in the comments – what are your favorite discontinued brands and products? And to what length (monetary and otherwise) would you go to get them back?

source: 43rumors.com

Debt is the Kiss of Death for a Relationship?

debt and love Debt is the Kiss of Death for a Relationship?Debt isn’t just hazardous to your financial well-being, it can destroy your relationships as well.  Just ask one young lady featured in today’s New York Times article.  Three days after she divulged to her fiance that she had over $170,000 in student debt, he broke off the engagement.  For her future relationships, she decides that she needs to share that information much sooner, because it can be a “deal-breaker.”

Still, all of this raises the question: At what point do you have a moral obligation to disclose your indebtedness during courtship? On the eighth date? When you get to third base? In your eHarmony online dating profile?

“It’s a sliding scale,” said Ms. Riesel, the Manhattan lawyer. “It depends on the person and the nature of the relationship.” Ms. Winters, the Short Hills divorce lawyer, said it might depend on your definition of a serious relationship. “But I wouldn’t wait until you were signing leases for apartments or picking out engagement rings.”

With a dual-career couple, it’s not unsurprising to have combined debt levels of hundreds of thousands of dollars. An MBA and a doctor, or a pair of lawyers, for example, can easily graduate with over half a million dollars after their studies.  If both CB and I attend graduate school as planned, we will probably come out with around $100,000-$150,000 in individual debt loads, baring any unexpected windfalls (ahem, lottery, anyone?).  It makes a little easier knowing that any significant debt we incur will be when we are in a relationship together, so no one is blindsided by the topic.

I wonder, though, is there a dollar amount of my significant other’s debt at which I would “walk away” from an otherwise loving and secure relationship?  I would say no.  But I have never been in a situation similar to what was profiled in the New York Times.

Before a relationship gets serious, I believe in a frank discussion about finances, especially on the debt burden, is certainly in order. Whipping out your student loan statement or your credit report is a bit of a mood-killer, so I’d save that discussion until at least the third date! icon wink Debt is the Kiss of Death for a Relationship?

Questions for readers:

1. If you have significant debt, at what point would you share that information with your significant other?

2. If you are dating someone who has significant debt, at what point do you expect or would want to know that information?

3. Is there an debt amount that is a deal-breaker?

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The Thin Line Between Minimalist & Moocher

Minimalism seem to be all the rage right now – I see it as a collective reaction against the excesses of the past decade, coupled by the necessity of having to cut back amidst economic uncertainty.  But could you cut back so much that you step over the line between minimalist and cross into moocher territory?

48687413 img 2340 300x181 The Thin Line Between Minimalist & MoocherAfter I read this article, “The Cult of less” in the BBC, I think the answer is yes. The article features Chris Yurista, a D.C. travel agent and DJ who says that technology has replaced the need for most of his possessions and even a physical home.

Since boxing up his physical possessions and getting rid of his home, Mr Yurista has taken to the streets with a backpack full of designer clothing, a laptop, an external hard drive, a small piano keyboard and a bicycle – an armful of goods that totals over $3,000 (£1,890) in value.

The DJ has replaced his bed with friends’ couches, paper bills with online banking, and a record collection containing nearly 2,000 albums with an external hard drive with DJ software and nearly 13,000 MP3s.

That’s great and all – who doesn’t aspire to a life filled with meaning, not clutter? But I wonder what Mr. Yurista’s friends have to say about his lifestyle.  To be fair, he could be chipping in for rent and utilities (or do other things to thank his friends for their hospitality) and the article just didn’t mention them.  Or, perhaps Chris has access to cheap or discounted hotel rooms through his job, and he only leans on his friends for infrequent overnight visits.

If that were the case, then BC has done Mr. Yurista a disservice by portraying him so unsympathetically – the blogosphere is already pointing out the paradox: in order to live a minimalist, residence-free lifestyle, you have to find people who ARE willing to rent an apartment and pay for utilities.

If this wave of minimalism will help us reexamine our relationship with “stuff,” that’s great.  If Chris Yurista were building his digital, rent-free lifestyle on the backs of his stuff-carrying, rent-paying compatriots, however, then he might be a minimalist, but he is also a moocher.

Where does minimalism end and mooching begins?

The High Cost of Free Parking

Do you have a car? Do you pay under $100 a month to park your car? If so, chances are you are enjoying an effective subsidy.  And by “you,” I am also talking about me. I have never thought much about the cost of parking (except when I had to valet my car in trendy parts of town).  In fact, I have come to expect free parking as the norm, or heavily subsidized parking at public garages / meters for $1 or $2 per hour.

Why free parking exacts a heavy cost

New York Times’ Tyler Cowen argues that free parking exact a heavy environmental and financial cost: motorists are more likely to drive when they don’t have to shoulder the true cost of parking, cash-strapped cities and states cannot charge enough to increase their revenue, and perhaps most importantly, we do not feel the sense of urgency in developing adequate public transportation systems as we would if we had to pay the true cost of automobile usage.

According to this article,

Under a more sensible policy, a parking space that is currently free could cost at least $100 a month — and maybe much more — in many American cities and suburbs. At the bottom end of that estimate, if a commuter drives to work 20 days a month, current parking policy offers a subsidy of $5 a day — which is more than the gas and wear-and-tear costs of many round-trip commutes. In essence, the parking subsidy outweighs many of the other costs of driving, including the gasoline tax.

Gulp. This article hits home for me because ever since I started my job 30 miles away, I have been a heavy user of my car and of my office’s parking space.  In fact, one of the reasons we chose our current apartment is that the complex offered two parking spots for our unit.

Somewhat selfishly, I am glad that I benefit from free and heavily subsidized parking I receive on the streets near my apartment, at work, and at restaurants and cafes. There is truly no good alternatives for a car where I live right now.  Although I live close enough to a subway station that I thought taking the metro might be a possibility, the nearest drop off point from my work is more than 15 miles away.

What if free parking went away?

If I had to pay $100 a month to park my car at home and another $100 to park at work, I will have to cough up the cash and keep on driving. If CB had to pay $100 a month to park his car, though, he might be in a position to rethink having a car – it is possible to get from our home to his work on the subway for around $250 a month. That amount is currently more than what he is paying for his car in gas – add in the convenience of the car (especially on the weekends), it’s not worth it for him to pay an additional $250 a month to take the subway. If, however, he would have to pay, say, $200 extra a month to park at home and at work, then the incentives obviously shift more in favor of using public transportation for commute.

In many large cities such as New York, Boston, San Francisco, and even in Los Angeles, it is possible to go without a car if you live right in the center of town near public transportation and you don’t work in the suburbs. Unfortunately, that’s not the case for most of us.

Do you benefit from free parking? If you had to pay $100 per month for a parking spot, how would you change (or not change) your behavior?

The New Abnormal: Pinching Pennies To Justify Splurges

A recent Business Week article caught my eye, with the title Americans Buy IPads While Broke in New Abnormal Economy“, it’s hard not to.

There are many interesting points in this article – the gist of it is that consumers are just sick and tired of making so many adjustments since the start of the recession. Now while we are willing to pinch pennies on the small items, we paradoxically are willing to spend big bucks on true luxury items. Indeed, the fact that we are saving $2 by buying store-brand paper towel instead of a national-brand may help us justify that it’s okay to purchase a new $2,000 computer.

The new abnormal has given rise to a nation of schizophrenic consumers. They splurge on high-end discretionary items and cut back on brand-name toothpaste and shampoo.

Ran Kivetz, a professor of marketing at Columbia Business School, has done research on consumer psychology. He says that consumers’ brains lack a line that separates spending from saving. We practice a certain amount of thrift so that we can justify blowing a large sum frivolously, he says.

Have you fallen into the pinching pennies to justify splurges mindset that Professor Kitvetz talks about?

I know I have. I have proudly patted myself on the back when I took advantage of a 2 for 1 deal and snagged an extra tube of toothpaste for the same price, then the next day, perhaps subconsciously emboldened by my earlier thrift, purchased a Groupon package for a local spa. In order to make my savings goals, I really shouldn’t have made that Groupon purchase. The fact that I saved $3 on toothpaste is nice, sure, ($3 is an In-n-Out burger!), but I would have to have gone through quite a few toothpaste for the $3 saving to add up to a $100 spa visit.

Now I consciously remind myself that my true savings is my income less my expenses (which includes taxes, rent, loans, groceries, and all the other incidentals that comes with living).  If I did not spend $10 because I skipped takeout one night but then went and spent $600 on an IPad, I have not saved at all. Instead, I spent $600 whereas I could have spent $610. That’s not to say I shouldn’t get an IPad or that it’s bad to spend – it’s not bad to spend (and in fact it is quite enjoyable, especially if you spend on things that make you happy, which in my case includes food, travel, books, and let’s admit it, clothes).

It IS, however, very important that we don’t subconsciously sabotage our own saving efforts by thinking that we are justified in making certain purchases if we really are not able to afford them.

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