The Little House in the Big Market

For the past few days I have been (re)reading all the Little House books – beloved books of my childhood.

When I was young, I loved them because the books were simple to understand and filled with mouth-watering descriptions of food. As I read them now, I started thinking of how much things have changed in the time between Laura’s life and my life.

The one thing that have struck me is the disparity in material and culinary richness, but also in people’s mindset. When Laura was five, her sister Mary had a proper rag doll. Laura, however, played with a corn cob wrapped in a napkin as a doll. A corn cob!

Finally, on Christmas, Laura received a rag doll, a pair of mittens, and a stick of peppermint candy cane. She was so happy that she could not say a word. Can you imagine only having candy once a year?

All foods were prepared at home. Even though the dishes sounded delicious, there was really no variety in terms of ethnic offerings. There were no pizza or potstickers or pho. No gelato or chocolate mousse. No tacos or teriyaki.

There was no expectation that little girls shouldn’t not have a corn cob, or that women should have more than a couple dresses a year. I can’t tell from the Little House series if the adults were ever ashamed of not having more – but I imagine that when one is living in the Big Woods, with wolves and bears for neighbors, the Joneses are pretty far away.

When Laura was sixteen, she worked as a schoolteacher and a seamistress’ assistant to earn money for her family. I have often wondered if she would’ve liked to go to college – that subject, I gather, was never even broached because the Ingalls could only send one daughter, Mary, to a college for the blind.

And now, we enjoy a level of material, culinary, and informational richness that would have been mind-boggling in Laura’s days.

Readers, Can You Help Me Find This Book?

Here’s something that has been nagging at me for the past several years. I am trying to look for a book that I’ve read as a child, but have completely forgotten the title, author, or in generally, any specific information that can help me search the book in Amazon or Google.

So, here is everything I remember about This Book:

The story is of a rich little girl who’s father is either away on business trip (likely) or kidnapped (less likely) or gone for an extended length of time for whatever reason.

The girl (I want to say her age is around… 10? Not a teenager, that’s for sure) lives in a huge mansion in a semi-rural area (there were descriptions of forests and wolves). The governess (or whoever the dad left in charge) converted the mansion into a boarding school for girls without his permission and proceeded to act in a horrid manner towards the little rich girl. The girl was sent to a dungeon (basement?) underneath the mansion, where she made friends with a servant girl.

Eventually, the dad (I think) came back and discovered the mess. The little girl was rescued. It was generally a happy ending.

Tidbits:
There was a description in the book that the little rich girl had warm milk with wine to help her sleep.
I’m almost 100% sure that the book is not The Little Princess.

Oh, and just because the above was NOT hard enough, I read this book in another language (which means it was translated, which means that it might not even be written originally in English – although I strongly suspect it is), and I can’t remember the title nor the publishing date. I read it in elementary school… so it must’ve been at almost 15 years ago, maybe longer.

So.. help?

Buying the shoemaker instead of the shoes

A reader emailed moi for advice on how to get started investing in a Roth IRA. I was pretty excited that she thought of me (disclaimer: I am NOT a financial adviser). I don’t particularly talk about my investments on this blog (except to say that I DO invest) because investing is different for everyone, based on risk tolerance, time horizon, goals, etc.

But based on my personal experience, what I will say about investing is this:

-Be informed, but don’t fall into the trap of analysis paralysis.
-Risk & return… if something sounds too good to be true, it usually is.
-Don’t be afraid to ask questions.
-Understand after-tax, after-expense returns.

If you have an interest in learning about how to construct a portfolio and investment theories, some of the books I’d recommend are: All About Asset Allocation by Rick Ferri, The Four Pillars of Investing by William Berstein, and The Coffeehouse Investor by Bill Schultheis.

If you just want to get started, I think Suze Orman’s Money Book for the Young, Broke and Fabulous is a GREAT beginner’s guide. I don’t always agree with Suze, and really didn’t care for her Women & Money book, but YBF is awesome. Another, even shorter guide is On My Own Two Feet, a personal finance book geared towards young woman. The book is a good resource and easy to read.

As to where to get the money to invest… I can’t invest (lend capital to others) if I don’t save (have excess capital to lend). This is a little mind trick I play… whenever I put money into my funds, I imagine I am buying a little piece of the shoemaker instead of the shoes, the automaker instead of the car, the restaurant company instead of a meal.

In 20 years, I would’ve long worn out the shoes, forgotten the meal, or ran down the car. But the shoe company, the automaker and the restaurant will work every day to generate a return to its shareholders (me!), and my pieces of those companies will grow in value.

Returning the literary love

Now that you have so graciously shared your recs with me, it’s my turn to return the literary love. Below are just some of the books that I love, and can read over and over again

The Hours by Michael Cunningham: A flawless weaving of the lives of three women, all tied to the novel Mrs. Dalloway: the incomparable Mrs. Woolf herself, a 1950s housewife in suburban America, and a 1990s lesbian writer in New York City. Gorgeous writing all around.

The Things They Carried by Tim O’Brien. A collection of related short stories about the Vietnam War. I first read it for a summer report in high school – I bawled my eyes out because all the stories were so poignant and true – until the first day of class when the teacher said, you guys know it’s a work of fiction, right? It’s written on the inside jacket. I felt stupid. But that doesn’t change the fact that Tim O’Brien is a genius.

The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion. I don’t know if there is a seminal work on grief, but the seminal work for me would be this book by Ms. Didion. Her husband of 30+ years dies suddenly at the dinner table. The first two sentences: Life changes fast. Life changes in the instant. The book is an attempt to figure out the how and when and where of the instant, and what lies beyond it.

The Naked Economist by Charles Wheelan. Even if you hate economics, I’d give this a strong recommendation. Dr. Wheelan covers the subject with witty & interesting anecdotes and easy-to-understand examples – not quite as quirky as Freakonomics but just as good. No dismal science here! Har har har.

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I love the public library

Using the public library is one of those standard personal finance advice – you know, get a library card & cut back on renting movies or buying books to save a bundle.

That advice is almost trite, but it works.

And I LOVE it! I frequent 2 libraries – one near work, and one on the way between home and work. Sometimes I’ll just duck in the library for 30 minutes and browse the shelves and fall in love with the fiction aisle. Those books with the elegant script, the intriguing title, the cover picture a blurred tree off in the distance, or a half a face of a lady, or a tiny sailboat off in the ocean.

I admit, I am a sucker for covers like that – they beckon: read me, and I will make you think, I will show you something about love, faith, grief, fidelity, betrayal, forgiveness, loneliness. Every good fiction, I think, holds out that promise to readers: delve into my pages and discover human nature.

Can you imagine – to be able to lure people in with a promise like that? To write is to create worlds. Destinies. It’s almost like playing God. Sometimes I imagine that we are just words on the page in the big book that the Ultimate Author is writing. If Heaven is when you’d get to read all those books that God’s written, I’d plop myself down and never stop reading (except to eat and love – it is Heaven, is it not?).

I’ve secretly harbored the hope that I can write something beautiful. Something provoking. Something that can be read, and re-read, and everytime you read it you fall in love with it a little bit more. Someday. icon wink I love the public library

And how the heck did a post on the public library get to God & human nature & all that jazz? Beats me.

Your book recommendations?

I grew up in a book-lovin’ family, and I am a book-lovin’ gal. (I’ve also been listening to alot of country lately… so pardon me for that country-esque line).

Seriously – I’d like to ask for your recommendations on books to read.

Books on my To Check Out List include:

–> Ishmael – Daniel Quinn
–> Eat, Pray, Love – Elizabeth Gilbert (probably have to wait until 2012 for this book to be available in the library seeing as that I’m #47236495330 on the wait-list)
–> Give Me The World – Leila Hadley
–> King, Kaiser, Tsar – Catrine Clay
–> Galileo’s Daughter – Dava Sobel

I am also partial to good chick-lit (I like the Undomestic Goddess by Sophie Kinsella).

If you think a book is worth reading – leave a comment (it’d be nice if you can write a tiny little blurb about it). I’ll add them on the list! Thank you. icon smile Your book recommendations?

3 books for $6

Today was my lucky day because I found three books that I’ve been meaning to buy – all in excellent condition – at the local library sale.

I got Joan Didion’s The Year of Magical Thinking, Calvin Trillin’s About Alice, and Nathaniel Hawthrone’s The Scarlet Letter for $2 each.  icon smile 3 books for $6 And they were all in hardcovers too!

If you are looking for good books to read, I’d recommend all three. Calvin Trillin’s About Alice is very short (78 pages) and straight-forward, but there’s something about it that’s so good.

Calvin said that he got a lot of letters like the one from a young woman in New York who wrote that she sometimes looked at her boyfriend and thought, “But will he love me like Calvin loves Alice?” Sometimes it’s hard to express how you feel about someone else in writing, but Calvin does, with really simple words and phrases. It’s a love story, not a romance novel.

Words, worlds

My job right now is very numbers-oriented. But I love words. I love the way that hardcovers feel. Or the way that old books smell. During college, one of my favorite way to spend a Sunday morning is to rummage through a book yard sale (after a HUGE brunch, of course) – I’d buy books for $1 or $2, and sometimes the really old editions would have lovely pencil script inside the cover, and I’d imagine who before me have read and loved the story.

Anyhow, this is a quotation that I’ve found, and I love it.

When I was little, my ambition was to grow up to be a book. Not a writer. People can be killed like ants. Writers are not hard to kill either. But not books. However systematically you try to destroy them, there is always a chance that a copy will survive and continue to enjoy a shelf-life in some corner of the an out-of-the-way library somewhere, in Rekjavik, Valladolid, or Vancouver.

- Amos Oz

How do people come up with such beautiful passages?

A long walk to forever

Kurt Vonnegut,
b. November 11, 1922.
d. April 11, 2007.

I only read a few of his stories in Welcome to the Monkey House, but “Long Walk to Forever” was one of my favorites.

If you have a chance, read it. It’s short and simple, but, wow.

Here is an excerpt:

They had grown up next door to each other, on the fringe of a city, near fields and woods and orchards, within sight of a lovely bell tower that belonged to a school for the blind.

Now they were twenty, had not seen each other for nearly a year. There had always been playful, comfortable warmth between them, but never any talk of love.

His name was Newt. Her name was Catharine. In the early afternoon, Newt knocked on Catharine’s front door.

Catharine came to the door. She was carrying a fat,glossy magazine she had been reading. The magazine was devoted entirely to brides. “Newt!” she said. She was surprised to see him.

You can read the full text here.