Weird Saving Tricks I Use

Do you use weird saving tricks? We’ve heard of all the normal ones: automatic deduction from your paychecks, setting aside 10% of your income for retirement, putting your tax refund into your savings account, blah blah blah. I’m not talking about those. I’m talking about the idiosyncratic and really strange little mental tricks you play on yourself so you can squeeze out a few extra dollars of savings here and there. In fact, I have a specially named sub-account for savings from these weird tricks - I call it my Funny Money account.

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Here are some of my weird saving tricks:

  1. When I make brunch at home, I put away $15-20 (what it would have cost us to go out to eat). Last weekend, we somehow managed to cook at home not once but twice, so $40 went from my bank account to the Funny Money Fund on Monday. We eat out at brunch way too often, and the funny thing is that brunch is my favorite meal to make, at a time -weekends- when I have time to make it.
  2. When I make a return (a dress that I just couldn’t make work, or shoes that don’t fit right), I take the money I get back and I put it in a savings account. Impulse buys, thou shalt not get the best of me!
  3. When I get a gift card as a present or as a bonus from credit cards, I try to put 1/2 of the face value into my savings account.
  4. When I stay at a hotel for free because of points redemption, I save $10-$40 depending on how expensive the hotel was.
  5. When I window-shop and I make the (frankly very difficult) decision to NOT buy that perfect pair of stacked suede heels or mirrored jewelry box with velvet lined interior, I put the money I would have spent into the Funny Money Account.

I use these little tricks because saving is just as much mental and emotional as it is mathematical. I know I am a spender trapped in a saver’s body – it’d be way too easy for me to overspend if I don’t put a few safeguards in place. So I have the big ones such as 401K deductions, but I also try to make it a fun game for myself and make sure that when I DO overcome those impulse buys or get lucky with gift cards or free stays, I put away a little something too. If the money is just swimming around in the checking account, I know I’m going to spend it.

Do you have any weird saving mind tricks you use?

What Percentage of Income Do You Save for Retirement?

Retirement. The 800-pound gorilla in the personal finance room. You can’t talk about personal finance without talking about retirement. And you can’t talk about retirement without talking about how much you are saving for it.

percentage of income for retirement1 What Percentage of Income Do You Save for Retirement?

I was reading on Bruce Bucks when this note caught my eye: according to personal finance expert Liz Weston’s financial rules of thumb, you should:

Save 10% for BASICS, 15% for COMFORT, 20% to ESCAPE. This rule of thumb works pretty well if you start to save for retirement by your early 30s. Saving at least 10% of your income ensures you won’t be eating pet food. Fifteen percent should get you a more comfortable living, while 20% gives you a shot at an early retirement (and yes, you get to count employer contributions as part of your percentage). Wait just a decade to start, though, and you’ll need 15% for basics and 20% for comfort; an early retirement may not be in the cards.

Wow! Those are some pretty big figures… We Americans aren’t exactly known as big savers, and I’d bet that most of us are not anywhere saving near the level necessary to escape into comfort. Recently, some experts are telling folks that they are saving too much money for retirement – after all, we might downsize our homes, we don’t need to buy business wear, maybe we can become a one-car or even no-car household. But I might argue that even 20% is not enough. Even though all these arguments make sense, I never feel that I am saving too much for retirement.

Thanks to my mother’s medical background and her penchant for sharing stories of folks in long-term care or suffering from catastrophic illnesses, I can imagine any NUMBER of ways to go. And it’s never pretty. Or cheap. (Well, if you die instantly it’s not too expensive. But most of us don’t get to choose). With the disappearance of pensions, diminishing Social Security payments, and increasing cost of health care, I wonder if fairly soon the new rule will be “15% for basics, 20% for comfort, and 30% to escape.”

In related news, I just maxed out my 2011 Roth IRA. Which makes this the first (and last, at least for a few years) year I have contributed the maximum to my 401K and IRA. Looking back at my past retirement saving history…

In 2006, I saved…. 39%
In 2007, I saved…. 42%
In 2008, I saved…. 8%
In 2009, I saved…. 17%
In 2010, I saved…. 39%
In 2011, I saved…. 24%

I maxed out a Roth IRA in 2006 with my first “real” paycheck. Since then, my savings rate has bounced up and down – in 2008, I wasn’t able to contribute to a 401K, and in 2009, I was laid off, but retirement saving has always been a top priority of mine. Last year I saved the most money I have to date, and this year I will be able to save around $2,500 more. If you count employer contributions, CB and I are both saving around 24% of our gross salary this year. Here’s hoping that we will have the option to escape to San Diego with mai tai’s when we are retired! For 2012, I have already submitted my paperwork for open-enrollment period at work. I’ll be saving 25% of my gross salary and CB will be putting down 10%, with an additional 10% employer contribution. Then we will max out our Roth IRAs.

On a side note, I like to evaluate my savings progress based on our total, unadjusted gross income. 401Ks are pre-tax, Roth IRAs and Roth 401Ks are post-tax, SEP IRAs are pre-tax but it’s based on 1099 income, etc., so I find it much easier to just calculate everything on the gross income. Otherwise it gets a little messy when you have to adjust for tax deductions.

What percentage of your gross income are you saving for retirement? (Tell us your age, location, etc. to give some context).

Adults Living At Home: My Change of Mind

When I was in college, my biggest goal was to make enough money at my job so that I wouldn’t have to move back in with Mom and Dad after graduation. Now that I am 4+ years out of school, though, I’ve realized it would have been nice to live at home for a few years. My workplace was too far to make it realistic, but even if I worked closer, I don’t think I was at a place where I would have wanted to live at home then.

What brought about this change of heart? I was reminded of this topic when Bridget at Hi That’s My Bike wrote a somewhat controversial post about adults living with their parents.

I don’t think anyone should live at home after the age of 20. I don’t care if you’re a student or saving up for a house, or whatever other ridiculous excuse you think justifies leeching off your parents. Everyone needs the experience of being independent in order to become self-sufficient. If you do not have enough money to pay rent, you have to find a way to make more money — this is called problem solving, and it’s an essential skill for coping with that scary thing called “real life” so it’s better to learn it sooner rather than later.

There are some aspects of the post that I agreed with. To have a successful stay at home, young adults should have a goal and a plan (getting a job, paying off credit card loan, etc.) and they should pitch in some way or another, such as chipping in for rent, doing some housework, buying groceries, etc.  I wrote about “boomerang” kids back in 2007, but given the economic downturn and the dearth of jobs for many new graduates, adults who live at home are more common than ever.

Moving back home isn’t all sunshine and roses, and it’s probably not a viable long-time strategy for many folks. But if you have a good relationship with your parents, living at home is a wonderful way to save up, accelerate student loan payments, and generally spend some more time with family.

I know several friends and friend-of-friends who have lived at home.

  • One girl lived at home for 5 years after college. She paid the market rate for her room. At the end of the five years, her parents gave her back all the money she had paid. That’s how she got a remarkable down payment and now is the proud owner of a 3-bedroom townhouse.
  • Another friend and his wife live with her parents while they are building up their small business and going to school.
  • One of my friends was a manager making $80K. She lived at home because it was 15 miles from her work, and there was no point in renting an apartment when she can save that money for something else.
  • CB lived at home for 2+ years after he graduated, and during that time he was able to squirrel money away (some of which to his retirement funds!). He was able to hang out with his brother and sister at night. He was able to eat his mom’s cooking – and bring me some when he visited! icon smile Adults Living At Home: My Change of Mind

Now I can say that if CB and I are ever working near my parents’ place, I would have no problem whatsoever moving in with them, setting on a very accelerated saving plan for a down payment, and enjoying my mom’s delicious dinners a few nights a week. I know my mom would love to have me back home. Maybe it’s a matter of culture (I come from one where it is more normal/expected for adult children to live with their parents – all my cousins currently live at home or in apartments purchased by their folks), but I don’t see anything inherently shameful in living with parents. It’s just a living situation.

So I guess my view on adults living at home is this: do what works for your situation, but don’t dismiss the possibility (and the potential savings) so quickly, and if you are living at home and working towards a goal, don’t be ashamed. It may not be as fun as living on your own, but what you gain in return – not just monetarily – could be well worth the inconveniences.

Would you live at home after college? Would you move back with your family as an adult to save more or pay down debt? Do you think living at home is shameful?

How soon should I start saving for a down payment?

Here’s a question for all the readers and PF bloggers out there: If you know you want to buy a house / condo with 20% down, but you won’t be able to buy for at least 5 years, would you start saving for a down payment right now? What if you have other goals in the mean time? How do you even begin the process of saving for a down payment if the total figure is so intimidating?

Given the rash of home purchases in the PF blogosphere lately (Krystal from Give Me Back My Five Bucks, Beantown Happy Homeower, Retire by Forty, Me in Millions, etc.), and my penchant for wandering into every IKEA within 50 miles of our apartment, I am getting the feeling that gee, I want to become a homeowner too!

In my corner of metropolitan Southern California, real estate prices show no signs of abating. Good homes, priced appropriately, get competitive bids and are sold within days. It would cost $250,000+ for a 2-bedroom condo and $400,000+ for a single family home unless I want to move very far from the city center. Assuming that we will eventually look at a home in the $300,000s, a 20% down payment would cost at least $60,000. Probably closer to $80,000.

In the mean time, we will be going to graduate school, paying off the related loans. Our incomes will likely – hopefully - increase, but most if not all of the increases will be eaten by loan payments (how poetic!) for at least several years. If we decide to have a child, the costs jump up again. We still want to continue to save for retirement. In fact, my goals would be for us to both max out our Roth IRA – what we are doing now- and contribute at least 15% of income to our 401Ks, ideally maxing those out too. Also, we have to maintain a healthy emergency fund and would like to fulfill our big travel dreams.

How do you get started? WHEN should you get started? Do you just keep saving and know in the back of your mind that money is for a future home? Or would you be more intentional about saving for a down payment (designating a special savings account, or CD ladder, for example)?

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Real Simple’s Money Guidelines

A recent issue of Real Simple magazine has an article titled 6 numbers for financial success. This is why Real Simple is one of my favorite magazines – it has fashion, organization, makeup, features, but sweetens with a dose of personal finance. Generally, I think these are good, basic guidelines.

28%: the share of your pretax monthly income that should go toward housing costs

Yes. Our housing cost (rent + utilities + internet) takes up 14%-15% of our pretax income. Rent’s an area that we are doing very well in… but I’m glad Real Simple doesn’t have a guideline for eating out. Because I’m sure we will exceed that!

120 – your age: the maximum percentage of your retirement savings that should be in stocks or stock mutual funds

No. I am 26, so according to the formula I should have more than 90% of my portfolio in stocks. I am not that risk-tolerant! Working has made me realize how much it hurts to watch my hard-earned retirement funds dwindle, so I have approximately 70% of my retirement funds in stocks and 30% in bonds.

5%: the maximum percentage of your take-home pay that you should owe to credit card companies

Yes. Neither CB nor I have credit card debt (unless you count the balance that we pay off each month). Instead, I use credit cards to get rewards such as gift cards or mileage bonuses. icon smile Real Simples Money Guidelines

10%: the minimum amount of your pretax income to save for retirement

Yes. Ever since college graduation I have saved 20%-35% of my gross income in retirement funds. If we include the 10% employer’s contribution that CB receives, we are contributing 27% or 28% of our combined income into retirement funds.

1: the number of times a year you should review your retirement portfolio

Yes and No. I look at my portfolio several times a month, but I don’t really make any changes to it other than add more money for Roth IRA or 401K.

10 x your gross income: the minimum amount of life insurance you should buy

No. I have a small life insurance through work. CB has something similar. Neither of us has purchased additional life insurance. After we get married, we probably will add a term life insurance so that if one of us dies, the other one will at least have some money come of it! (OK, that didn’t come out right, but imagine the pain of losing a spouse. It would be nice to have some money so that one can take time off work or school, handle funeral costs, travel to be with family, etc., if an unexpected tragedy occurs).

As you can see, I qualify for most of these guidelines, but I missed a few that I don’t think applies in my situation. How did you do?

Savers (This One Included!) Frustrated By Low Interest Rates

Remember the good ol’ days of 2006 and 2007, when interest rates climbed to 5% and banks were falling over one another to provide the highest rates to savers? With every little effort, my cash were earning 4%+ in saving accounts, and I had a few CDs that earned 5%.

With interest rates barely at 1% now, today’s savers are facing a very different reality. According to the Los Angeles Times:

The Federal Reserve has dropped interest rates to historically low levels in hopes of resuscitating the ailing economy. That’s been a boon for borrowers taking out auto or home loans, and a salve for banks still trying to recover from the global financial crisis three years ago.

But for savers, the microscopic yields are the equivalent of a migraine. They’re especially hard on the elderly, many of whom rely on steady interest income to pay routine living expenses.

And the lack of interest income will ultimately take its toll on the sputtering economy: Americans will hold back spending because they aren’t making as much money off their low-rate accounts. Consumer spending accounts for about 70% of the U.S. economy.

So what’s a frustrated saver to do? The same LA Times article mentioned some folks who have cashed out to purchase gold, or to make other alternative investments in search of a higher yield. In my case, the answer is “what can I do?”

It’s too risky to put my short-term savings anywhere but money market funds and savings accounts. At this point, my first priority is capital preservation and liquidity. My non-retirement savings are in a prime money market fund, while the rest are with a big bank’s saving account, earning a paltry 0.95%. Even online banks’ rates aren’t much better. I believe ING is currently offering 1% on their Orange Saving Accounts.

Compared to the folks in retirement who depend on their saving accounts for living expenses, I’m lucky. A decrease from 5% to 1% interest rate didn’t affect my standard of living. It is still frustrating that my cash is losing value with every passing moment – after all, the inflation rate is almost 4% right now. But I have to hold on to the cash. So I suppose all I can do is to sit tight.

Savers, are you doing anything about the low interest rates? Has it affected your spending or retirement plans?

How Much Is That MBA In the Window?

How much is that MBA in the window?
That two-year three-lettered degree?
How much is that MBA in the window?
The loans will be the death of me!

The MBA application season has started (cue resume updates, essay writing, interview prep, cross-country campus visits, and lots and lots of $$$). Even though the application process and travel is costing a pretty penny, I know the REAL big expenses will come once I am accepted into the hallowed halls of graduate education.

The cost of a 2-year MBA program usually runs $160,000+ including tuition, books, and room and board. Wharton, in fact, suggests a $180,000 budget for two years for new incoming students. To say that number is intimidating would be putting it lightly. With 12 months until I hopefully start my MBA journey, I’ve decided to look at my finances and see how I can meet that cost. No Debt MBA is an MBA student who plans to graduate without any debt. I may not be as ambitious as she is, but I would like to keep my total debt under $50,000 and I’d like to pay off, not capitalize, accrued interest during my 2 years in school. Here is how I plan on paying for my business education while minimizing student loans.

$80,000.

That’s how much I have right now, around $40,000 in personal savings and $40,000 in promised family contributions. To stretch this money as far as possible, I plan on living with roommates, getting by without a car, and limiting my purchases. Baaaack to student living! The family contributions will come from the sale of my grandmother’s apartment. My grandmother, despite never having gone to college, was a great proponent of education. So, my mother has decided that this will be her gift to me. I think she would be happy I’m using the money to go to school.

The rest?

I am crossing my fingers that I get some grants (i.e., “free money”). If I could get the $30,000+ a year that No Debt MBA did, I would be over the moon. If I can get even $10,000 a year, that would help tremendously. My 401K and Roth IRA hover around ~$70,000 (give or take $5,000 depending on which way the Dow blows), but I’m leaving those funds alone. Aside from the penalties and fees, I’d like to think that that money isn’t even mine – they belong to a nice old lady 60  years from now who will be mighty glad I didn’t raid her retirement kitty. icon smile How Much Is That MBA In the Window?

After graduation, I’d like to go into a marketing or marketing consulting role. While I should be able to make a good living from these jobs, they are not the $200K+ salary and bonus figures that finance types boast of in their first year out of school. So I want to be very careful about how I take on student loans. (A new blogger I just found, No More Harvard Debt, is a 2009 Harvard MBA who is blogging about paying off $90K in debt in 8 months). In any case, I don’t want to make too rosy a projection of my post-MBA finances. You get in trouble that way. Making $100,000 when you thought you’d only get $80,000 = Wundebar! Making $200,000 when you planned for a $250,000 lifestyle? No bueno.

Furthermore, getting married means that I am no longer just concerned about “my” finances. CB is also going to a masters program. He will also take on loans, although I am hopeful that he will receive many more grants than I will. The more we minimize our educational debt, the more flexibility we will have down the road.

BCBG Sale: Wedding Dresses Under $300

During my hunt for a cheap and chic wedding gown, I stumbled on BCBG.com. The site is having a big sale right now, with an additional 20% off for sale items until August 2. There are several beautiful white dresses that will be wonderful for a wedding. If you are also looking to for a gown, check out this site! (As an aside, I don’t understand why white dresses are displayed against such a light background!)

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(A few more I like: Timona strapless silk gown, Cyrus tiered gown, Lexie v-neck gown)

Goodbye ING Direct?

ing direct 300x78 Goodbye ING Direct?Just heard that ING Direct will be bought by Capital One. I’ve been a member of ING Direct since 2006 and have always been very happy with their customer service. I love the sub-accounts feature, and as of right now I have 6 accounts with ING. I hope Capital One will respect the culture and customer base that ING Direct has created, but only time will tell. For now I plan to stay put and see what type of changes the acquisition will bring before I make a decision to stay or go.

Most folks on Consumerist are quite upset about the change – I have to admit I am a little, too!

Do you have ING Direct? Are you planning to switch banks because of this acquisition?

Hat tip to Debt Ninja.

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A Spender Trapped In a Saver’s Body

A Spender vs. Saver

Whenever articles come out that ask: Are you a natural-born Saver or Spender? I always think about which category I’d fall into.

On the surface, I’d probably be classified as a natural saver – I save for retirement, long-term goals, big trips, etc., and I don’t live beyond my means. And yet, I think I am a spender trapped inside a saver’s body – because I really, truly, hate the feeling of not being able to spend.

If you are like me, you wouldn’t be very good at depriving yourself / enforcing no-spend rules. For example, I thought about going to Paris one night, and bam, I am making plans for a $4,000 trip. I see a beautiful $300 dress, and I click “Buy” after just a few hours (the travesty is that I still have not worn that dress. Six months later. But I will in October for a wedding). I go through Starbucks like they are going out of style, and at $4 per latte it would be a very good thing for my wallet if they DO go out of style. I eat out much too much.I tried living without a budget and while that went OK for a while, I soon realized that, nope, I DO need an budget adult allowance. I get bitten by the shopping bug.

Can you become a saver if you are naturally inclined to spend?

I think so. Just like you can still get in shape if you hate exercise or you can still eat healthily even if you love sweets. It’s all about playing little tricks on yourself to help you along. How I’ve done that is to put away money before it gets into my hands. I do this with my 401K contributions – every month over $2,000 disappears before I get my paycheck. That way, my spending is constrained by the money that I actually have. I also try to minimize my BIG expenses (rent, car, etc.) so I don’t have to go through daily acts of deprivation (no Starbucks, no eating out).

Automatic savings, paying myself first, and forgetting about the money I have so I always feel less well-off than my bank ledger – these are the ways I try to keep my inner spender at bay!

Are you spender or a saver? Or are you, like me, a spender trapped in a saver’s body? Any savers trapped in a spender’s body here? icon smile A Spender Trapped In a Savers Body

Living Well on Less Than $40K a Year: Lessons for Everyone

Can a family of four live well on less an income of less than $40,000 a year? Donna Freedman of MSN Money profiles two families who say “yes.”

  • Tracy and Danny Kofke, an at-home mom and a special-ed teacher, live near Atlanta with their daughters, ages 3 and 6. Adjusted gross income: just over $36,000.
  • Amy Halloran and Jack Magai, a freelance writer and an arborist/choreographer, live near Albany, N.Y., with sons ages 7 and 12. Adjusted gross income: about $30,000.

A lot of people live on less than that. In fact, both families are still well above the current federal poverty guideline of $22,350 per year for a four-member family. I chose them because they live in or near large cities, rather than in the deep (and cheap) countryside.

If you can own a home and raise kids in metro Atlanta on $36,000 a year, as the Kofkes do, you obviously have something to teach. And even though Halloran and Magai lucked out with cheap housing, their annual income is slightly less than the federal minimum wage for two people.

It’s nice to see stories of how this IS possible and how the two families made choices that work with their priorities. I make more than $40K a year but a whole lot less than some of the families usually featured in these money series. What’s great is that there is always something I can learn or some inspiration I can draw from all these stories, no matter how much more or how much less I earn than those profiled.

In Donna’s article, the two families offered five strategies for how to stretch an extra dollar, which can be implemented by people of all incomes to one degree or another.

Strategy 1: Know where every dollar is and where you want it to go.

Knowing where every dollar goes is important if you are either 1. on a limited income or 2. have big saving or debt pay-off plans. I cruised along without a budget for a while, and then I realized I needed to make some changes so I at least have an idea of where my money went.

Strategy 2: Start with cheaper housing.

One of the reasons why I can max out my retirement accounts this year is because I have very cheap housing. In fact, my rent is less than 15% of my gross income (most experts recommend your housing costs stay under 30%). There are a lot of ways to lower your housing costs, including sharing a space with roommates, buying multi-unit housing and renting out rooms, live in the not-so-trendy part of town, live in an older building, live in a building with few amenities, etc.

Strategy 3: Get creative about meeting needs.

I’m not so sure if I am “creative” about meeting needs. In fact, I’d say this is one of the areas where I can definitely improve on – starting with cooking at home more often. I do, however, get really cheap haircuts at a local beauty school.

Strategy 4: Get even more creative about meeting wants.

My level of “creativity” tops out at finding a really inexpensive Thai massage place ($40 an hour!), using restaurant.com coupons for eating out, and cashing in my credit card points for Sephora and Banana Republic gift cards. Oh, I also try to always buy quality clothes / shoes on sale or at off-price retailers such as TJ Maxx or Loehmann’s. Do those methods count?

Strategy 5: Stay true to your goals.

This is great advice, no matter if you make $40K or $400K. My goals are a sound financial retirement, future home ownership, a successful career, and meaningful personal relationships. One could argue that good money management skills play into all four. icon smile Living Well on Less Than $40K a Year: Lessons for Everyone

How are you doing on these 5 strategies?

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Thanks to Money Beagle for hosting the Carnival of Personal Finance Opening Day Edition and for featuring my post Bag Lady Syndrome: Do You Have It?

See Yourself with Wrinkles and White Hair, Save More for Retirement

One reason why people – especially people in their twenties and thirties – don’t save for retirement is because our future selves are so distant. But if what you can come face to face with your Future Self? What if, you will be able to see your own face, digitally aged to 68 or 70, with wrinkles, creases, and white hair? Well, you just might be encouraged to stash more cash for retirement, so says the Wall Street Journal article on behavioral economics.

Why is it so difficult for people to set aside money for the long-term future? Low earnings and high temptations are obvious reasons. But perhaps the most basic cause is a fundamental human frailty: We view our future selves as strangers.

Estimating with any precision what you will want 30 or 40 years from now is almost impossible. You don’t know your future desires, because you don’t know your future self. What will you want or need when you are 65 or 70 or 80 or older? Who knows?

Viewed this way, it isn’t surprising that the young typically don’t want to save for their retirement, since that stage of life feels as if it will be lived by someone else. And when you save money today on behalf of your remote future self, you deprive your immediate present self of cash you could use right now.

Of course, if you spend tomorrow’s savings today, you won’t have cash when you need it in the future—but that day of reckoning is decades off. That is true for those of all ages, but the lost opportunity is greatest for young people, because money set aside at an early age has more years to grow.

Yet it is highly unusual for people to think more vividly about their future selves than about their present selves, say psychologists.

Imagine yourself as “grandma” or “grandpa”

One way I reach a connection with my Future Self is to imagine the 70-year-old me as a close loved one, a grandparent or a doted aunt, perhaps. Her welfare and comfort rests on my shoulders. Grandma’s source of income comes from Social Security and whatever I have put aside for her. Grandma can’t work, because she is old. Her health might not be up to snuff. Employers might be more reluctant to hire older workers. If I put nothing away now, grandma gets nothing extra in her retirement.

She will have to subsist on ramen and rely on library books for entertainment when she might have loved to eat sushi and visit Latin America. Even worse, what if grandma gets sick? If I don’t have funds for her, she will only have first-generation drugs with heavy side effects. She will not be able to pay for a in-home aid or a private room at the hospital. Do I want grandma to be in such sad straits? Of course not!

Grandma’s friends might plan a big trip cruise to the Mediterranean but she can’t go because she doesn’t have the money. On the cold days, she might not have enough money for heat. Or she will have to choose between heat and food, or food and medicine. Or she lies awake at night worrying about her future. How will she live? Will her house be foreclosed on?

That doesn’t sound like a fun retirement for grandma, does it?

Now we don’t not know what we will be like, exactly, when we are old. But looking at my grandparents, I know what matters: a nest egg that will provide for them in their old age and prevent them from being financial burdens to their children, family who loves and takes care of them, trips and lunches with friends, and a dignified death when the time comes.

ALL of the above is made easier with sound financial resources.

I think it’s a great idea that scientists are figuring out ways for people to save. But I don’t understand how people don’t think they will be old. Everyone grows old – or dies young. But I don’t need a sophisticated facial progression software to encourage me to save. I just imagine the plight of sad, old, grandma, who is confined to a life of bare subsistence because I didn’t make her a priority.

Does the “grandma” (or “grandpa”) trick work for you? Would you be more likely to save if you saw a digitally aged photo of yourself?

The Bag Lady Syndrome: Do You Have It?

The Bag Lady Syndrome is the fear, usually held by women, that they will end up alone, destitute, and homeless. Talk about a trifecta of bad news. I read somewhere that a majority of women – even very successful and wealthy women – harbor this fear.

Are you afraid of becoming a Bag Lady?

I am.

I wrote about this fear in a BlogHer article, and I focused on three ways I can minimize the risk of becoming a Bag Lady: (1) saving, (2) investing in my career, and (3) buying a home and paying off the mortgage as soon as possible.

In fact, the entire genesis of this blog may be a result of the Bag Lady Syndrome. In my About Me page, I wrote that I “do not want to be old and poor.” The unspoken corollary there is that I do not want to be old and poor and homeless.

Mom has instilled many great characteristics in me, but she also put into my head (rightly or wrongly, and I am inclined to say rightly) that being old and poor is one of the most tragic fate that can befall a person. It’s probably what she can see in her work as a medical professional.

Avoiding The Bag Lady Fate

I don’t want to live a life based in fear, but I admit that fear of becoming a Bag Lady drives my decisions today and will likely drive them tomorrow. For example, I try to save as much as I can for retirement right now, I educate myself on investments and asset allocation, I plan to invest in and always maintain a career.

Most importantly, I plan to buy a single family home and pay off the mortgage so that I will own it free and clear by the time I turn 50. (I plan on having several houses in my lifetime, one to live in, and others to serve as rental properties. But one home will always be paid off.) In my opinion, the biggest safeguard against homelessness is to have a home that you own, and that no one else can take from you.

I read Funny About Money’s account of how she survived on $22,000 last year – most of it from unemployment insurance. She said she felt like she was in penury. What struck me the most about Funny About Money’s post, however, was the fact that she wasn’t out on the streets – she had a home, that she paid off years ago, and so she would not be homeless:

No matter what anyone says about the alleged tax advantages of carrying a mortgage, when you’re unemployed a paid-off roof over your head is your second-greatest asset.

I agree 100%. The truth is, if someone didn’t have housing costs, he/she can probably scramble by for a year or more even in the face of unemployment. There are other options: food stamps, local health clinics, buses, ways to take on odd jobs or freelance assignments and make a few hundred dollars a month. Take out the biggest source of expense – rent or a mortgage – and you can get by if you are in adequate health.

Are you afraid of becoming a Bag Lady? What are you doing to prevent that fate?

Help Your Significant Other Save for Retirement

 Help Your Significant Other Save for RetirementOne of the things about good relationships, I think, is that each partner help the other become a better person. Well, not to toot my own horn, but I think I’ve done my part when it comes to CB and personal finance. icon wink Help Your Significant Other Save for Retirement

CB isn’t as nerdy as I am when it comes to money management, but I’d like to think that I’ve nudged him towards the JOY and EXCITEMENT of saving for retirement. He first started a Roth IRA in 2009, and today he just put in the full $5,000 for 2010 (you have until the tax filing deadline – April 18, 2011 – to contribute to the Roth IRA for 2010).

I am so proud of him. CB is only in his mid-20s and he has already maxed out the Roth IRA for 2 years. Plus, his work has a very generous employer’s contribution, so with all of his retirement savings – Roth IRA, 401K, employer contribution – he is saving around 25% of his gross income towards retirement. How awesome is that?

Neither of us are out-of-control spenders or carry heavy debt load, so it wasn’t too hard to get the retirement-saving train rolling.

Here is how I helped my partner start saving for retirement:

  • Talked about why saving for retirement early is so important. The power of compound interest, y’all! “The old CB will thank you,” is what I always say.
  • Shared with him both my insecurities and goals – I do NOT want to spend my old age in poverty (I DO want to retire in sunny San Diego and have brunch every day), so it’s important to me that CB starts saving as well. Because if we stay together for the long haul (which is the plan), his financial well-being is mine and my financial well-being is his. By saving for retirement, he is honoring my priorities and showing me that he is committed to our mutual goals.
  • Gave him information on the logistics of opening up an account online, and helped him decide on an asset allocation that fits his goals and risk tolerance.
  • Encouraged him to sign up for a 401K in addition to the Roth IRA.
  • Told him he should put the money into retirement accounts instead of spending on Valentine’s Day (he still gave me a wonderful Valentine’s day, though, with a lovely bouquet of roses and lilies delivered to my office. So, I’m not sure that he listened to my advice… but I loved it!).

Personal finance is sexy. Now go and encourage your significant others to get a piece of the (retirement) action.

Have you successfully nudged (or been nudged) towards better personal finances by your partner/significant other?

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How Many Accounts Is Too Many?

Do you ever have trouble keeping your accounts straight? I think I have done an OK job of consolidating all my accounts, but I still have quite a few.

Retirement

  • Roth IRA: First started in 2006, I’ve maxed it out every year since – even staying the course through dark days of 2009. I haven’t started contributing to 2011′s yet, that will start in June or July.
  • SEP IRA
  • Rollover IRA: I roll over all my old 401Ks into this fund.
  • Work 401K: Thanks to my laziness, I will be on track to maxing this out by May or June.

(all my retirement accounts are held at the same investment firm except for the current 401K)

Checking and Money Markets

  • Bank Checking #1
  • Bank Checking #2
  • Online Checking: I think I keep a grand total of $1.29 in this fund. Hmm… I don’t even know why I have it!
  • Investment Firm Money Market Fund: 2/3 of my cash savings – I expect to clean this out for graduate school tuition (tear).

Savings Accounts

In sum, I have 15 accounts held at four different institutions. How many accounts do you have?

Paying Debt vs. Saving Money

Mathematically, paying down debt and saving up money both require you to spend less than you make. The mechanics of paying off a $10,000 loan vs. saving $10,000 is the same – in both instances, you would have to have $10,000 left over after you have paid for all your necessary expenses.

Motivation-wise, though, the two goals are different. Paying debt has the added allure of “being debt-free” and saving on the interest on the debt. Saving money, however, means you are building something, instead of just digging yourself out of a hole. This obviously motivates some people (it’s easier to want to do even better when you are already doing well).

What do you think? Readers who have both paid down debt and saved up money – which one do you think is more difficult? Which one was more motivating?

How Laziness Help My Finances

Most people think that laziness is a detriment to accumulating wealth. In certain situations, though, it can help! Laziness is how I am on track to max out my 401K in 7 months.

After getting my first paycheck of 2011, I realized two things:
1. The payroll tax deduction IS real! Yes for extra cash (small amounts they might be).
2. I forgot to adjust my 401K deduction.

When I became eligible to contribute to a 401K last July, I decided to put away $2,500 a month so I can make my $15,000 contribution goal for 2010. I was going to decrease my monthly contribution levels at the start of this year because I will have the whole year to put away $16,500 instead of 6 months.

But I forgot, and by the time I remembered, I realized that I was too lazy to adjust my deductions. It was just easier to let the contributions continue as before. At this rate, I should max out my 401K in 6.6 months. Then I will max out the Roth IRA and say bye bye to 2011 Goal #3.

This is an example of how laziness can work in my favor… or, positive automation. icon smile How Laziness Help My Finances   An employer-sponsored plan like a 401K or a 403b is THE BEST WAY to practice positive automation. It’s really easy to let yourself go the path of least resistance as long as you set up that path to be good for you.

In another bit of exciting news, I now have over $60,000 in my retirement accounts. My goal is to break the $100,000 balance before I go to graduate school in a few years. I might take out a bunch of debt for school, but by golly I am going to have a nice little nest egg going in first! Maybe with a few more instances of positive laziness, I can get there.

Have your finances ever benefited from your laziness?

2011 Payroll Tax Deduction = You’re Getting a Raise

The economy is supposed to pick up this year (wait, isn’t that what they said about 2010?) One thing is for certain, even if you don’t get a raise in 2011, you will get a raise. How? The federal government has decided to cut our 2011 payroll tax deduction and try to get us to spend just a little bit more.

Payroll tax is normally set at 12.4%, split at 6.2% between employer & employee. But for one year only, it will drop down to 10.4%, with the 2% deduction going to the employee. If you have self-employment income, you will also benefit from the 2% drop on your “employee” side income.

Sounds pretty great, right? 2% isn’t much a fortune- it works out to about an extra $83 a month for someone making $50,000 and $125 a month for someone making $75,000. But those little bit extras add up.

Bottom line: more money? I’ll take it! Now, the trick is to use this small windfall wisely and not to let it fritter away. For more, please take a look at my BlogHer article:

2011 Payroll Tax Deduction is a Small Windfall

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