10 Ways to Deal with Your Wanderlust When You’re Short on Time and/or Money

wanderlust 10 Ways to Deal with Your Wanderlust When Youre Short on Time and/or MoneyI’ve been bitten by a serious case of wanderlust lately. Part of it is the fact that I have not flown since last October, and another part is that I just really cannot wait until our honeymoon to Buenos Aires. What to do, what to do, when you are itching to travel, but cannot (at least not yet) because of lack of resources, whether that be time or finances?

Here are 10 ways to deal with that wanderlust when you’re short on time or money.

  1. Attend a travel convention. That’s what I’m doing this weekend – the Los Angeles Time Travel Show is here, and if I can’t head to London or Barcelona at least I can listen to Rick Steves TALK about the wonders of Europe. (If you want to go, use the code “LATR” or “LATO” for $2 off the $10 admission tickets).
  2. Set up a dedicated travel fund. If one of the obstacles to a trip is money, there’s only one way to resolve that obstacle – with money! Putting dollars away in a specific fund help us prepare for a big vacation – our Galapagos Fund has grown from a twinkle in my eye in April 2010 to $10,000+ now.
  3. Subscribe to well-written travel catalogs with lots of colorful photos and detailed itineraries. OK, this might only make your wanderlust that much more powerful, but it’s a fun way to torture the traveler in you! I especially enjoy Wilderness Travel’s paper catalog (it’s free, and they don’t spam). I have one from last year that I’ve read, cover-to-cover, more times than I can count on my fingers.
  4. Read blogs of folks who have visited the destination of your desire. I am a frequent visitor of this Galapagos trip blog. I try to tell myself that my time will come. 
  5. Plan out an entire trip in your head. From airfare, to specific hotels and restaurants, to entertainment options, to local transportation. Maybe keep a few spreadsheets detailing the budget breakdown of what such a trip will cost. Go back to #2. Repeat as necessary for all the trips that you want to take. Thanks to my penchant for researching and planning trips, I now have the itineraries of Turkey, Paris, New Zealand, and a several other places floating around in my head. Hmmm.. Oops? (I can’t be the only one who does this!).
  6. Host a foreign exchange student or foreign traveler. If you can’t go to Rome, you can bring someone from Rome to your home! If you are ready for a longer-term commitment, serving as a host for a foreign exchange student would be a great way to learn more about that person’s culture. Or sites like couchsurfing will let you play host for a few days.
  7. Pretend to be a tourist in your own city. So many times we forget or overlook the tourist attractions in our own cities, attractions that real tourists pay good money to be able to visit! I’ve been guilty of this. So play tourist for a day – maybe even ask someone for directions.
  8. Go on a day trip. Leave early, come back late means that you save on the hotel costs but can see visit someplace a little bit different from the day-to-day. If you are in Los Angeles, you can make it to Santa Barbara on a day trip. If you are in San Francisco, Monterey (and the famous aquarium) is doable. If you are in D.C., the wineries of Charlottesville are 2.5 hours away. If you are in San Diego, land of perfect 72 degrees, WHAT are you complaining about?! icon wink 10 Ways to Deal with Your Wanderlust When Youre Short on Time and/or Money
  9. Open a rewards credit card to pay for your hotel or flights. Done and done. Of course, only do this if you can pay off your balance in full every month.
  10. Drink wine and pretend you are in Paris. Enough said.

Share in the comments! What effective, unusual, wacky ways do you try to deal with your wanderlust, when you just can’t get away?

Santa dropped by with a Kindle Fire

By Santa, I meant my fiance. He snuck out of the house yesterday morning and came home with a Kindle Fire for me – happy surprise indeed! We had talked about getting an e-reader or a tablet this year, but I have been hemming and hawing about the price. I guess he got tired of my indecision and made a judgment call.

So far, I really like the Kindle Fire. I’ve been playing with the tablet all day. At $199, it’s much cheaper than the iPad (of course, with fewer capabilities, apps, etc.), but for my needs – light blogging, reading, web surfing, it is perfectly adequate. In fact, I am typing this post on the Fire right now. I haven’t completely ruled out returning the Fire and getting the $99 Kindle Touch instead, for the e-ink and the longer battery life. But it is nice to get wifi and be able to read content online. Either way, I will have to watch out and make sure I don’t go crazy with buying $10 books every week. Given that I can go through normal paperbacks in a couple of hours, I will have to stock up on free books as often as I can.

Do you have a tablet or an e-reader (or are you getting one this holiday season)? If you have good sources for free reading material, please share in the comments!

Virginia Woolf: Personal Finance Blogger?

If the incomparable Mrs. Woolf had grown up today, perhaps she would’ve been a personal finance blogger.

In fact, 80 years ago, Virginia Woolf wrote series of speeches that turned into a slim volume called A Room of One’s Own. Her writing is luminous, not at all like the dry and dull writing most people imagine financial expositions to be. But the ideas contained within that tiny little book have much in common with the personal finance bloggers and financial advocates of today.

Virginia Woolf is one of my favorite authors (I love Mrs. Dalloway), and discovering A Room of One’s Own (and reading it through a personal finance lens) just made me love her more.

In the book, Virginia Woolf posits that for a woman to achieve success in her art (a female Shakespeare, for example), she “must have money and a room of her own to write fiction.” I would argue that in fact, Virginia Woolf would have felt the same about any pursuit that requires creativity and dedication.

Women. Financial security. Freedom to pursue one’s art or ambition. Mrs. Woolf said it best, and she said it 80 years ago. But her central tenets are just as relevant today as they were in 1929.

We still need a room of our own.

A (Book)worm in the Big Apple

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Tomorrow I will check out a few book stores. On my short-list are Idlewild Books and Three Lives. Otherwise, I’ll probably just walk around and pop into whatever store that catches my fancy.

I love books, and I love bookstores – old, new, big-chain, mom-and-pop. That’s why even though the Kindle has gotten rave reviews, I couldn’t quite bring myself to make the move to digital books. I like flipping the actual pages! And the feel of aged paper! And the book itself – a satisfying rectangular box that, once opened, can bring you into a different world.

Tomorrow, I’ll try hard not to buy too many books. But I figured one is okay. icon smile A (Book)worm in the Big Apple

One thing that I’ve noticed about New York is that it’s a city of readers, more so than Southern California – or at least NYC has many more public readers. I’ve seen people reading on the subway and in parks and it makes me feel so great to be in such a literary city. I think SoCal has its shares of readers too, but like everything else in that area, we are just much more dispersed.

I did see a driver reading an entire book on a freeway once. I hope to never see that again.

***And speaking of reading, the current Carnival of Personal Finance is up! Please mosey on over for a dose of scintillating personal financial literature.

Readers, Can You Help Me Find This Book?

Here’s something that has been nagging at me for the past several years. I am trying to look for a book that I’ve read as a child, but have completely forgotten the title, author, or in generally, any specific information that can help me search the book in Amazon or Google.

So, here is everything I remember about This Book:

The story is of a rich little girl who’s father is either away on business trip (likely) or kidnapped (less likely) or gone for an extended length of time for whatever reason.

The girl (I want to say her age is around… 10? Not a teenager, that’s for sure) lives in a huge mansion in a semi-rural area (there were descriptions of forests and wolves). The governess (or whoever the dad left in charge) converted the mansion into a boarding school for girls without his permission and proceeded to act in a horrid manner towards the little rich girl. The girl was sent to a dungeon (basement?) underneath the mansion, where she made friends with a servant girl.

Eventually, the dad (I think) came back and discovered the mess. The little girl was rescued. It was generally a happy ending.

Tidbits:
There was a description in the book that the little rich girl had warm milk with wine to help her sleep.
I’m almost 100% sure that the book is not The Little Princess.

Oh, and just because the above was NOT hard enough, I read this book in another language (which means it was translated, which means that it might not even be written originally in English – although I strongly suspect it is), and I can’t remember the title nor the publishing date. I read it in elementary school… so it must’ve been at almost 15 years ago, maybe longer.

So.. help?

I love the public library

Using the public library is one of those standard personal finance advice – you know, get a library card & cut back on renting movies or buying books to save a bundle.

That advice is almost trite, but it works.

And I LOVE it! I frequent 2 libraries – one near work, and one on the way between home and work. Sometimes I’ll just duck in the library for 30 minutes and browse the shelves and fall in love with the fiction aisle. Those books with the elegant script, the intriguing title, the cover picture a blurred tree off in the distance, or a half a face of a lady, or a tiny sailboat off in the ocean.

I admit, I am a sucker for covers like that – they beckon: read me, and I will make you think, I will show you something about love, faith, grief, fidelity, betrayal, forgiveness, loneliness. Every good fiction, I think, holds out that promise to readers: delve into my pages and discover human nature.

Can you imagine – to be able to lure people in with a promise like that? To write is to create worlds. Destinies. It’s almost like playing God. Sometimes I imagine that we are just words on the page in the big book that the Ultimate Author is writing. If Heaven is when you’d get to read all those books that God’s written, I’d plop myself down and never stop reading (except to eat and love – it is Heaven, is it not?).

I’ve secretly harbored the hope that I can write something beautiful. Something provoking. Something that can be read, and re-read, and everytime you read it you fall in love with it a little bit more. Someday. icon wink I love the public library

And how the heck did a post on the public library get to God & human nature & all that jazz? Beats me.