Giving Gifts Makes Me Happy

And that includes giving to others and myself! icon smile Giving Gifts Makes Me Happy

Today I went to shop for a Secret Santa exchange – Marshalls generously sponsored the project, giving me $25 to shop for another blogger and $25 to shop for myself. (I love Marshalls and TJ Maxx. I would sing their praises all day even without gift cards. Wait.. shouldn’t say that too loudly! Hehehe).

Even though I didn’t know my Secret Santa, buying gifts for someone else is very fun. With $25 to spend, and knowing that she is a fashion blogger, I wanted to make sure I get her something stylish.

In the end, I decided on a Nine West wristlet wallet in a gorgeous poppy color (price paid: $12.99, MSRP: $34), a KitchenAid apron in bright yellow (price paid: $6 on clearance, MSRP: $15), and a box of notecards with matching envelopes (price paid: $3.99, MSRP: $6). The total came out to $25.22, including tax. Practically perfect.

Sorry for the lack of pictures, by the way - I’m on an OLD computer after my 5-month Lenovo started going crazy and I had to send it back for repairs.

I put the other $25 towards a pair of 3.75-inch bejeweled holiday shoes for myself. I love the embellishments – and even though the heel is high I am fairly comfortable in them. Not sure if I can tango in these shoes though.. icon wink Giving Gifts Makes Me Happy nine west jon2 pump pewter Giving Gifts Makes Me Happy

$39.99 at Marshalls. $75 MSRP, selling for $45 – $70 on various websites (Macy’s, Amazon, Endless, etc).

I also managed to resist the temptation of the influx of B. Makowsky leather bags at my Marshalls.  My brown leather satechel is from that brand and so far I’ve been very satisified with it.  Just have to keep telling myself I don’t need a new bag right now.

Confession: I Want New Boots

But I know I shouldn’t. Because (1) I don’t have a source of income, (2) I am spending $1,500 buckaroos on Disney World (will be completely worth it!), (3) I’ve spent several hundred dollars traveling for campus visits, friend visits, and interviews.

This means that although I look at luxury sample sale sites and indulge in window shopping, I haven’t really purchased very little ”stuff” for 4 months (I’ve purchased 1 pair of sandals and a T-shirt in New York City, and a pair of tango shoes). That seems like a really long time.

This time has made me realize how often I’ve used something new to as a little pick-me-up, or a just-because. The proper personal finance mantra to repeat would be: I see how I have all the things I need and that life isn’t about new coat or a fancy dinner.

Which is true. 

That said, I would really like this pair of leather boots right about now:

Jcrew Boots Bronwyn2 Confession: I Want New Boots

J.Crew. $300 with 30% off until Sunday, December 13.

It’ll be $210 after the discount. Add in taxes and shipping charges, total will be closer to $250.

New Wish List

Picking up a new hobby has given me some new items to put on my wish list.

I wish I may, I wish I might
Dance in new tango shoes tonight

Argentine tango shoes (~$200+) are on the top of my list. My current Latin heels have become loose in the front, causing my feet to slide forward, which in turn results in looseness in the heel cup.  Sooner or later (preferably sooner, for the sake of my feet), I’ll have to switch over to tango shoes with a firmer across-the-toes strap and better arch support. Edit: after suffering some foot pain after dancing, I went to a doctor to make sure I’m taking care of my feet. The doctor’s verdict: I need harder (more supportive) soles and a wider shoe. Now I am officially on the hunt for a pair of shoes that won’t make my feet hurt.

I actually did go to a specialty dance store in search of my very first pair of Argentine tango heels, but unfortunately (fortunately?) couldn’t find a style that I liked in my size. But in the words of the Governator… I’ll be back.

tango shoes New Wish List

This weekend I went to a milonga (a tango dance party) and had a nice time, i.e., guys asked me to dance. and I did! But I found that I enjoyed classes and practicas much more. Fashion-wise, some of those ladies (and gentlemen) were really dressed up! Imagine women in slinky cocktail dresses and high heels, and men in full suit and tie – I do love the atmosphere of the milongas.

I’m still a beginner, so most of the time, I will mess up a step or improperly follow a lead, and I suppose I just found it frustrating that when I danced, I wouldn’t have the opportunity ask the instructor what I did wrong, and how to correct it so that next time I can get a little closer to doing it the right way.

Anyone remember the movie Uptown Girls? Where a young Dakota Fanning character insisted that FUNdamentals are FUN? Well, I believe I am in that stage where I would rather work on my fundamentals and technical foundations – every time I dance outside the presence of an instructor I am wary of developing bad habits that will take hours to correct later.

On that note, private tango classes (~$80+) are also on my wish list.

So, I think I will limit my milonga attendance to once every month or two month and just dance more frequently at classes and practicas for now. On the bright side, fewer milongas means I’ll save $10 to $20 entrance fees.

$330 Pair of Flip-Flops

You read the title right.

I am usually an advocate of spending more on quality shoes, but, as I’ve come to realize, “more” and “quality” are all in the eyes of the beholder.

Now, behold this pair of Hermes calfskin flip-flops.

Hermes flipflops $330 Pair of Flip Flops

On the one hand, I wonder how in the world a pair of flip-flops can reach 3 figures. I hope the little illustrated wings are real because for $300+ a pair these babies better be able to make me fly.

On the other hand, this pair of flip-flops is probably the most affordable item at Hermes, given that a Hermes Birkin bag costs $5,000+. Yet, I can more easily justify the purchase of a bag – wouldn’t flip-flops just get dirtied and ruined?

How much would you spend on flip-flops? I say my thereotical limit is around $20, but the most I’ve spent on a pair is probably ~$15. Secretly, though, I wonder if there’s something extra special about calfskin flip-flops.

Guess I’ll never know! icon wink $330 Pair of Flip Flops

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I won't actually do it…

But I’d really like to own this pair of ankle boots from Cole Haan. Never mind the $395 price tag.

colehaan I won't actually do it...

Apparently when the economy’s bad, I really want to buy shoes. (Who am I kidding, I always appreciate nice shoes. But the economy’s a convenient scapegoat right now). I’d wear this with black tights, a shift dress, and a thin croc belt.

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